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Ordinaryday

yeah I love the "you are such a cool guy and you are going to find a great girl one day" line. Because I have heard it from so many girls who I thought were great, so when I do find a great girl she says this line to me :/

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Mine's a doozy.

I'm 19 and he breaks up by telling me:

 

"I have a terminal illness and I don't want you to see me suffering and dying."

 

It turns out, 37 years later (he's still alive and kicking), that he was apparently talking about 'Life'....:rolleyes:

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Coping Vortex
You are kind, sweet, and caring, and he is not, but I love him in spite of what he has done to me, so never contact me again :(

 

Wow that one takes the cake.

 

I got the following:

 

"You are way more affectionate than him" I miss the emoting (telling each other how much we love each other), he doesn't do that" "the love between you and I, was way more intense than with him", "Him and I are not as close as you think" "We don't spend as much time together as you think"

 

All of that and she is still with him. I guess she is liking a less loving relationship LOL!!!! Go figure.

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Coping Vortex

Thought of a few more she told me.

 

We need to take a break.

We need to talk

 

Both classics.

 

When they say they want to take a break. It means they are pursuing someone else.

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Yeah I think secretly women like being treated like crap. If you are nice, they prefer the bad boy, them complain when he treats her badly. I attribute mine to battered woman syndrome...she just keeps going back and thinks he will change but he never does.

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"We need to talk"

"I'm not making you happy anymore"

"I don't think we are meant for each other"

"I'm going through a psychological breakdown"

 

:rolleyes:

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"I thought about it and realised we wouldn't be happy together"

 

"I can't be with anyone right now"

 

"I am so confused, how can I make decisions?"

 

"I still haven't had sex with her"

 

Used to hurt, now it's just so funny and stupid!

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My favorites:

 

-You're a great guy.....(a bunch of bull**** to follow)

-I just need to do me right now.

-I just need to be single right now.

-I still love you <--- LOL this one cracks me up.

-I have so much going on in my life right now <--- LOL no she doesn't

-I need to focus on my life right now.

 

I just recently went through a break up and heard all of the above. I looked through her pics recently LOL she's not busy or whatever she used as an excuse to break up. She's partying it up and getting ready for St. Patricks Day. lol pathetic...

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Ohhh Wait heres more:

 

-I won't get with anyone in the near future.

-I won't date for another year.

-It will take me awhile to get over this.

-You think you're the only one that's sad?

 

Then I see pictures of her and another guy! LOL im hurt but damn im mad too

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My favorite:

 

"He's really a nice guy! I think you would like him if you got to know him!"

 

Are you frickin high?!?! The dude, pursued a girl that he KNEW was in a committed relationship. Yeah, he's a frickin Prince.

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brokenhearted91

When I got upset, I was told that "people control their own feelings, you don't have to get upset". And "don't regret it, just learn from it". It's made me feel bad for getting upset and also like I can't be sorry and regretful at the part I've played in this.

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Ohhh Wait heres more:

 

-I won't get with anyone in the near future.

-I won't date for another year.

-It will take me awhile to get over this.

-You think you're the only one that's sad?

 

Then I see pictures of her and another guy! LOL im hurt but damn im mad too

 

Oh my god I had this too!! While we were together (long before he ended it) he'd say "if we ever split up, it'd be a long time before I'd wanna be in a relationship again"... Fast forward 2 years, he breaks up with me and 2 weeks later he's texting a girl?!

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missjones4812

My ex told me "I guess I was just unhappy." I guess in his mind that justifies him cheating on his son and I, me catching them in our home, him leaving even after I was willing to forgive him, and him moving in with this other person he barely knows and her 4 yr old the same day he walked out on us! POS!

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In my mid-twenties, someone said, "I know exactly how you feel, and trust me... You WILL feel better soon. You will!" I was pissed.

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"I know I still have feelings for you, but I'm not IN love with you anymore."

 

"You're still important to me, so that's why I have to be harsh on this."

 

"It will take a long time for both of us to get over this."

 

"I'm sad about losing everything we had, I'm sad about losing the future with you as well."

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" I want some time to figure out what I want to do with my life"

 

WHAT?

 

" I just want to crawl back in my room and be a hermit and figure things out."

 

DOES THIS MEAN YOUR BREAKING UP WITH ME?

 

"Yes, and I thought about this for sometime. I lost my Romantic feelings for you a few months ago, Your a great guy and I really like you."

 

WHAT? HOw AM I SUPPOSED TO EXCEPT THIS?

 

" You just need to get over it...I gotta go before I start crying."

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