I need to speak my mind.

[yessy21]

But i am also looking for opinions. Its a rather personal matter but i just need help.

 

i have a 6 year old daughter. shes a great kid. hasnt seen her father in about 1 year and a half or longer.... he stopped picking her up because his gf at the time hated us. and i was dissapointed but whatever what could i do.

 

My daughter went to her aunts house this weekend and i asked her aunt to please see if she can see her father because she wants to see him. they go to where they think he is but he didnt come... and they never called him. when i picked up my girl she was visibly upset that she couldnt see him.

So, yesterday on my way to pick up a friend i passed by her grandmothers and asked her to please tell him that (our child) wants to see him. she said "oh, hes on his way over." im like okay well let him know. she said" ill call u tonight."

 

TOday, i call her aunt (he has 8 brothers and sisters in total) that lives accross the street to ask her for her moms number and she said " oh J is here, do u want me tell him what u told mom. im like yea please."

 

as i hang up... i hear her say... "shes still stuck on J." Im like WTF. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years going on 3 and i love him. I dont understand why she thinks that, all because i asked them to tell him that his daughter wants to see him.

Should i just give up and not mention it anymore... and just wait till my daughter forgets... which is what is probrably going to happen because i dont think he cares.

i dont know what to think. i just felt bad for my baby and passed on a message... is that being stuck on someone?

 

Maybe i should just leave them all alone.

Theyre making me look like a crazy obsessed fool. out of one message.

 

if i try contacting him his gf goes all crazy. so i dont bother him directly.