Sun Devil Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 These girls in my club were talking about a date one of the girls went on. They all asked if the guy she is dating is taller, and all the girls agrred that the guy they will date must be tall. It seems that I cannot find any girl who will date a short guy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
denxnis Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 If you're short than you have to either have an amazing personality/face or be ripped. Also, since you're posting here my guess is your confidence is low/shot, fix that too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
trevzilla Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 85% of women want a guy who is 6' or over and only 15% of guys are 6' and over. You do the math. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
rocketman122 Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 so pack up since those few girls spoke on behalf of all the women. I know its hard for shorter guys but there are women who will date shorter men. do you do all you can to maximize attraction though? I just think youre lazy and whiner like the majority of people. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 My H is 5'7". he has had a lot of partners.... I have a regular customer coming to my store who is no taller than I, at 4' 10". he's been married 3 times, and now has a new GF. My brother is 5' 4". He has never been without a GF for more than a month - two at the most. It's probably not your height. You're just projecting it onto that, because you can't think of what else it might be.... If you have something you choose to see as, and make into, a problem, then that's your problem. 12 Link to post Share on other sites
ls32ssibm Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 85% of women want a guy who is 6' or over and only 15% of guys are 6' and over. You do the math. Just like guys want a gorgeous face, bangin' tits and a firm, tight butt. I don't have any statistics for you, but must of the girls I see are overweight personally. When women say they want a "tall guy", they usually mean taller than them. Can't say I blame them; I prefer a shorter 'gal. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 85% of women want a guy who is 6' or over and only 15% of guys are 6' and over. You do the math. Yes I'd rather do the Maths since you are not able to: where does the 85% come from? Have you interviewed every single woman on this planet? Thought not. Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 You have to give up this height thing. You can either let it rule your life, or accept that you're short and you can't do anything to change that and it is what it is. You have to improve everything else you can possibly improve on and don't phase the stuff you can't change. When you start doing that, you will see success. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 I'm short, not rich, not famous, but fit, out-going (usually), open and confident in who I am and what I have to offer and have had my share of dating. Height not ONLY the thing I suspect is the problem for you, but as others have said- there's nothing you can do about your height. There's plenty you can do about other things that you can improve upon, develop. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 Dude, I'm guessing here, but it is probably your Aspergers. Not your height. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Soxfaninfl Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 These girls in my club were talking about a date one of the girls went on. They all asked if the guy she is dating is taller, and all the girls agrred that the guy they will date must be tall. It seems that I cannot find any girl who will date a short guy How tall are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 Have you tried some platform shoes? Maybe carry a 3' step box everywhere you go. When you see a girl you like, walk up to her, place the box in front of her, climb on top of the box and then ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 How tall are you? I think he's 5 foot even. OP, despite what everybody here says, your height does matter. I'm venturing to guess that if you were 6 foot, your odds of landing women would go up exponentially and that MANY of the women who have rejected you would have at least given you a twirl. Anybody who denies this is either a stone faced liar or deluded. People are shallow. Very many of them and very much so. OK. So, now that is out of the way. You have two arms, two legs, and two eyes right? You have all of your facial features where they are supposed to be? Well, be thankful for that. And the next time you get a chance to cut somebody some slack when they might be 'physically deficient', you do it. That is how you f@ck up the game, not by playing along. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Palominas Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 I'm 6'8" and I still have issues dating. Some girls think I'm a bit intimidating... I'm guessing there is some sort of sweet spot that .001% of the population fits. Other than that, like others say, it's all in your personality and confidence. Heck, Peter Dinklage from Game of Thrones gets tons of hot girls. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 (edited) No - he doesn't. he's happily married with a daughter. But he got one girl, at least! Edited March 6, 2013 by TaraMaiden one kid, not 2...... Link to post Share on other sites
aed Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 I'm 6'8" and I still have issues dating. Some girls think I'm a bit intimidating... I'm guessing there is some sort of sweet spot that .001% of the population fits. Other than that, like others say, it's all in your personality and confidence. Heck, Peter Dinklage from Game of Thrones gets tons of hot girls. this! height doesnt mean ****, when you are tall and are struggeling with dating. Dinklage is a famous person, so ofcourse he can get tons of hot girls, but I know for 99% that every famous guy will get allot attention from women. Link to post Share on other sites
Soxfaninfl Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 I think he's 5 foot even. OP, despite what everybody here says, your height does matter. I'm 5'6 and I've message women that were 5'7 and 5'8 on dating sites, and I haven't gotten a responses. Well at least I have it were it counts and that is my dick size. I've never had a women complain. I remember my ex-wide telling me that her boyfriend from high school was taller than me, but his penis was smaller than me. I rather be short with a above average penis than a tall guy with a little dick. Link to post Share on other sites
ScreamingTrees Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 I'm 5'6 and I've message women that were 5'7 and 5'8 on dating sites, and I haven't gotten a responses. Well at least I have it were it counts and that is my dick size. I've never had a women complain. I remember my ex-wide telling me that her boyfriend from high school was taller than me, but his penis was smaller than me. I rather be short with a above average penis than a tall guy with a little dick. Yes, but you're talking as though nature intentionally gives smaller guys bigger penises and taller guys smaller penises, when that just isn't true. It's just the luck of the draw. A man's height and penis size are both just a genetic crap shoot. You're just lucky that you didn't get a small penis as well as short stature, that's all. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 If a guy is really short, he's going to need an amazing personality to make up for it. A hearty helping of confidence also helps. Which of course means that if a short guy doesn't have a lot of confidence and his personality is average, he will find it extremely difficult to attract anybody. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 85% of women want a guy who is 6' or over and only 15% of guys are 6' and over. You do the math. Key word "want" This has no indication on how it really is Link to post Share on other sites
Soxfaninfl Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 (edited) Yes, but you're talking as though nature intentionally gives smaller guys bigger penises and taller guys smaller penises, when that just isn't true. A man's height and penis size are both just a genetic crap shoot. Where in my post does it say that? I was talking about my situation and what I have experienced with women. I would never trade my penis size for height. It all a matter of pleasing your lady in the bedroom. Edited March 6, 2013 by Soxfaninfl Link to post Share on other sites
PJKino Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 It's all i nyour head height isnt that important to women https://twitter.com/heightismwatch Link to post Share on other sites
Fallen Petals Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 I'm 6'8" and I still have issues dating. Some girls think I'm a bit intimidating... I'm guessing there is some sort of sweet spot that .001% of the population fits. Other than that, like others say, it's all in your personality and confidence. Heck, Peter Dinklage from Game of Thrones gets tons of hot girls. Ok ok ok - I'm one of THOSE girls who likes the tall men...proportionate though mind you - SOOOOO, having said that - just your height alone would land you at least a first date with ME. HOWEVER - OP - this is not true of all women. I know a TON of women who PREFER their man be closer in height to them. Many of the women in my family have married men under the 6' mark. It's like the age old penis size question - it really does NOT matter the size, it's what you do with it that matters - so...yeah a guy can pull it out and say he's 8 inches and land himself plenty of first dates on that alone, but he won't find a forever girl on that alone - your height may on paper shoot you down a date or two - but you don't want anyone so superficial anyway. And for the record - I wouldn't turn a guy down based on his height - ever. I just would give a taller guy a chance based on his height...LOL (yes there's a difference) Link to post Share on other sites
ScreamingTrees Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 Where in my post does it say that? I was talking about my situation and what I have experienced with women. I would never trade my penis size for height. It all a matter of pleasing your lady in the bedroom. It just sounded like you were under such an assumption. And while I'm supposedly a bit more endowed than my much taller, larger friend, I do believe it's just the luck of the draw for both of us. Link to post Share on other sites
ScreamingTrees Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 Ok ok ok - I'm one of THOSE girls who likes the tall men...proportionate though mind you - SOOOOO, having said that - just your height alone would land you at least a first date with ME. HOWEVER - OP - this is not true of all women. I know a TON of women who PREFER their man be closer in height to them. Many of the women in my family have married men under the 6' mark. It's like the age old penis size question - it really does NOT matter the size, it's what you do with it that matters - so...yeah a guy can pull it out and say he's 8 inches and land himself plenty of first dates on that alone, but he won't find a forever girl on that alone - your height may on paper shoot you down a date or two - but you don't want anyone so superficial anyway. And for the record - I wouldn't turn a guy down based on his height - ever. I just would give a taller guy a chance based on his height...LOL (yes there's a difference) Well, why would the one or two to shoot down a 6'8 guy be superficial, while the majority of girls giving him a first chance because of his height are not? The 6'8 guy doesn't need those girls either, but that doesn't leave him with a large pool of candidates. Link to post Share on other sites
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