Eggplant Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 My ex-boyfriend, I was crazy about him (). He was 5'4. I'm 5'3. People told me to wear flats, but he and I both liked my high-heels. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 You are a doll. Wish some of the other members who posted previously could read the last two pages. Yeah Phoe appears to be pretty. It's crazy that she doesn't have a bf, while that really nasty girl a few pages back does have a bf (or claims to anyway). Odd..... Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 You are a doll. Wish some of the other members who posted previously could read the last two pages. Sadly, many of the posters here might read what I say, but still not believe me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 My ex-boyfriend, I was crazy about him (). He was 5'4. I'm 5'3. People told me to wear flats, but he and I both liked my high-heels. One of my ex's did not mind at all when I wore heels, so I wore them frequently. The other did mind, so I kept it to flats. While I do like my heels, shoes are just shoes. I can gladly do without! Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Yeah Phoe appears to be pretty. It's crazy that she doesn't have a bf, while that really nasty girl a few pages back does have a bf (or claims to anyway). Odd..... Phoe doesn't have a boyfriend because she lives on that island from Life of Pi. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Hah! I think you're 10th in line with guys on this forum. That's fine with me. I have no issues going against the competition. If there is something I want, I intend to put everything I have into obtaining it. Women is no different. Now, actually finding women that is worth the effort, that is a different problem..... I get so turned off easily once I see the majority of women in public. But Phoe.....oh yeah. I would have no issues loving her for who she is. She has that personality that I can click with. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 No. What he's saying is that if he was taller, it wouldn't have made a single bit of difference at the end. Considering we are both down when it comes to dating, there is one thing we do differ: You don't believe him. I certainly can. And for further proof, my height didn't mean a damn thing either when I was a virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 One of my ex's did not mind at all when I wore heels, so I wore them frequently. The other did mind, so I kept it to flats. While I do like my heels, shoes are just shoes. I can gladly do without! o.0 You wear heels? My lord.....I need to start making plans. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Phoe doesn't have a boyfriend because she lives on that island from Life of Pi. :lmao: Now now, let's not be silly, I at least have a postman out here! Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 And for further proof, my height didn't mean a damn thing either when I was a virgin. The only issue I have with my height is if I can be dominating in bed if I wanted to. Apparently I can (at least from the looks of it). That's all I need to find out. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 I get so turned off easily once I see the majority of women in public. But Phoe.....oh yeah. I would have no issues loving her for who she is. She has that personality that I can click with. See you may like me here, but for all you know if you met me in public you wouldn't have given me a 2nd thought! Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 See you may like me here, but for all you know if you met me in public you wouldn't have given me a 2nd thought! That depends. Are you generally mean in public? Do you walk around as if you have this ego that would scare me away from approaching? From the way you post here, I don't think that is the kind of person you are but, as they always say, looks can be deceiving. Most women down here is like that. This is why I don't approach them. It's not rejection I'm concerned with. It's everything else. Women down here looks like they are armed and dangerous and they don't look friendly either. Of course, that doesn't count for the fact that my approach is pretty weak. Instead of me not giving you a good consideration, I may scare you off instead. Link to post Share on other sites
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 That depends. Are you generally mean in public? Do you walk around as if you have this ego that would scare me away from approaching? From the way you post here, I don't think that is the kind of person you are but, as they always say, looks can be deceiving. Most women down here is like that. This is why I don't approach them. It's not rejection I'm concerned with. It's everything else. Women down here looks like they are armed and dangerous and they don't look friendly either. Of course, that doesn't count for the fact that my approach is pretty weak. Instead of me not giving you a good consideration, I may scare you off instead. A friend of mine used to live in Jacksonville. I visited him every now and then. I found the girls to be pretty nice. Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 A friend of mine used to live in Jacksonville. I visited him every now and then. I found the girls to be pretty nice. Public transportation would give you a different opinion then. I'm sure if I had access to a vehicle, I would change my tune too. Like Phoe, I can't wait to get out of this city. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Public transportation would give you a different opinion then. I'm sure if I had access to a vehicle, I would change my tune too. Like Phoe, I can't wait to get out of this city. I think everybody feels that way. I felt that way about my hometown too. I did better with women when I moved...but I think that was because I was happier and in a better place in life, in general. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Are you generally mean in public? Do you walk around as if you have this ego that would scare me away from approaching? From the way you post here, I don't think that is the kind of person you are but, as they always say, looks can be deceiving. I don't think so, people usually call me "too nice"... I find myself playing therapist to random strangers quite often. Elderly people most often... I don't know why/how but several times a week my workday gets put on hold to chat with someone who just wants to get something off their chest. Perhaps it's easier to deal with difficult things when it's with a strange girl you'll never see again, but is kind to you in that moment. So no, I don't think I have a "mean" aura, but still... my awkward dorkiness is what turns people off IRL, I think. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
iKING Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 I don't think so, people usually call me "too nice"... I find myself playing therapist to random strangers quite often. Elderly people most often... I don't know why/how but several times a week my workday gets put on hold to chat with someone who just wants to get something off their chest. Perhaps it's easier to deal with difficult things when it's with a strange girl you'll never see again, but is kind to you in that moment. So no, I don't think I have a "mean" aura, but still... my awkward dorkiness is what turns people off IRL, I think. How is it again that you don't have a boyfriend? Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 How is it again that you don't have a boyfriend? Been single for 6 years.. alot of wrong place, wrong time I think. I don't get pursued often, and usually if a guy pursues me it just fizzles out as we learn quickly that both of us just aren't clicking, or I pursue a guy and he is not interested in me. One of these days both forces will align and I'll end up with a guy who's very interested in me, and me in him. I hope it just doesn't take another 6 years -.- Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 I don't think so, people usually call me "too nice"... I find myself playing therapist to random strangers quite often. Elderly people most often... I don't know why/how but several times a week my workday gets put on hold to chat with someone who just wants to get something off their chest. Perhaps it's easier to deal with difficult things when it's with a strange girl you'll never see again, but is kind to you in that moment. So no, I don't think I have a "mean" aura, but still... my awkward dorkiness is what turns people off IRL, I think. I tend to be "too nice for my own good". You will be surprised how many people have told me that, esp. when given the situation, I have every need to be cruel. With that said, if that is really you, which I'm confident you are, I would indeed approach you once you are generally not around a lot of other people. Some people can get very nosy and I tend to get annoyed when that happens so I do prefer more open space. Lastly, I don't mind the dorkiness. As I said before, I really do need to meet you. I'm glad throughout your life you hasn't came here yet because I would beat myself up that I could have seen you IRL and didn't go to speak to you when it was available. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Been single for 6 years.. alot of wrong place, wrong time I think. I don't get pursued often, and usually if a guy pursues me it just fizzles out as we learn quickly that both of us just aren't clicking, or I pursue a guy and he is not interested in me. One of these days both forces will align and I'll end up with a guy who's very interested in me, and me in him. I hope it just doesn't take another 6 years -.- I doubt it will take another 6 years. I'm sure of it. In fact, believe it or not, I'm serious when I said that I want to meet you in person. If you are willing, I will keep that in mind and plan accordingly. And yes, I do mean that. Link to post Share on other sites
mortensorchid Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 As for a man, I would say that if he is of average height, he has the same chances as most others. But I can tell you this, I stand at 5'10", so I am taller than the average woman. What I cannot stand are guys who are clearly shorter than me and they are trying to tell others that they taller than my height of 5'10". I never say anything. I mean really, how do you tell someone that they are just full of s***? And if I did, they would probably react terribly. Link to post Share on other sites
iKING Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Been single for 6 years.. alot of wrong place, wrong time I think. I don't get pursued often, and usually if a guy pursues me it just fizzles out as we learn quickly that both of us just aren't clicking, or I pursue a guy and he is not interested in me. One of these days both forces will align and I'll end up with a guy who's very interested in me, and me in him. I hope it just doesn't take another 6 years -.- Ouch. I'm working on 2, I thought that was as bad as it gets, but I also haven't been looking, and denied advances by girls who I just did not click with on a personal level. So really It's my own fault. Totally understand where you're at. You're a pretty awesome girl, I don't see how it could take that long to find someone with mutual interest. Rather baffling really. Keep your hopes up, there'll be a guy that'll sweep you off your feet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 I doubt it will take another 6 years. I'm sure of it. In fact, believe it or not, I'm serious when I said that I want to meet you in person. If you are willing, I will keep that in mind and plan accordingly. And yes, I do mean that. I would hope that the both of us would be able to find matches close to where we both live, but if we ever did get the chance to meet I think it would be a wonderful opportunity. Sadly we live on opposite sides of the country, and that's quite a big deal. Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 I would hope that the both of us would be able to find matches close to where we both live, but if we ever did get the chance to meet I think it would be a wonderful opportunity. Sadly we live on opposite sides of the country, and that's quite a big deal. That's understandable but when it comes to dating, at least to me, when it comes to a women that I have interest in, I have no issues doing whatever is necessary to meet her (or, in this case, you). Unfortunately, I did enough damage going off-topic here so I will have to stop. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 Ouch. I'm working on 2, I thought that was as bad as it gets, but I also haven't been looking, and denied advances by girls who I just did not click with on a personal level. So really It's my own fault. Totally understand where you're at. You're a pretty awesome girl, I don't see how it could take that long to find someone with mutual interest. Rather baffling really. Keep your hopes up, there'll be a guy that'll sweep you off your feet. I'll admit that for about 2 years I was not looking, and I'm sure my unavailability came across. After my last boyfriend cheated and got physically violent, I checked out emotionally. A year later I was raped, and again, completely checked out. The next 2 years was a matter of dating a few guys and things just not clicking. The final 2 years leading up to now I've been living in a very small town, and I've been asked out once (last week actually. it was the most sleazy and disgusting attempt at dating me that I've ever seen from a man). So it's been 4 years of being actively available, rather than 6. Bah, my dating lifestory plastered onto this forum... *facepalm* Link to post Share on other sites
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