Some girls made a comment about height

[normal person]

If any female tells me that the only reason why she is dating me is because of my height, I would just walk out and end all contact without saying another word.

 

I certainly can understand your frustration given that you seem to have been through a lot in your life.

 

To be fair, I think the general sentiment is that shortness precludes guys from a lot of consideration, but being between 5'10" and 6'3" doesn't automatically grant them consideration either, it just means they aren't automatically removed from the pool of prospects ...yet. You're just through the first round, you still have to impress beyond that.

[somedude81]

Funny. Not all men have wanted to date me. Not even close. I kinda doubt that guys would date anything thing. Not even you would, so you know that's not true.

Those guys most likely realized who you were inside and knew to stay the hell away.

[PJKino]

Yup. Shallow. And mean. And happy

 

Men out there need to know what they're up against.

 

Fortunately, there are some women out there who don't care that much about height, but many do. Ninjapajamas is a guy on here who is frequently trying to flesh out "what men are really thinking" for the women of the board, and this is what I'm trying to do for the men. Some women just don't like short guys. I've liked a few, myself (liked a couple of them a lot even), but not gonna lie, I'd rather have a taller guy. Not too tall, but around 5'10" to 6' is good. And so would a lot of other women prefer a taller guy.

 

I couldn't care less if you think I'm degrading others. I'm not here to coddle your or anyone's else's feelings or sense of "what a good person is" or "what a non-shallow person is."

 

It's nice that you're not a person who would degrade others for your entertaiment. But I am a person who would degrade others for her entertainment

 

Most of the men in this thread don't bother me, actually, though. They're a'ight. somedude81 is a big twerp, though. Or little twerp, I should say. Glad he's alone and sad.

 

You must be good lookng because i cant imagine anyone would be with you for your personality..

 

For some guys a cute face and a warm hole will do till theyre tired of sex and move on to another one

[ThaWholigan]

Those guys most likely realized who you were inside and knew to stay the hell away.

 

You must be good lookng because i cant imagine anyone would be with you for your personality..

 

For some guys a cute face and a warm hole will do till theyre tired of sex and move on to another one

 

LOL @ you two falling for the bait

[AD1980]

I can't believe she's being so mean actually, I'm shocked - she's not normally like that.

 

However, I'm not surprised. You spend a few months listening to the sh*t and you feel like being mean occasionally.

 

The thing is, it's not like there aren't women who like short guys - most of the ones I know actually do just fine with women. But the reason why is because they ignore their height, they ignore the women who don't like short guys and they carry on - there's no whining on their part, they know they're short and that's it. I have respect for them.

 

If the short dudes here learn to do that and stop taking it so seriously they might have a shot. Forget the "women are shallow" sh*t, we know a lot of women (and men) are shallow - accept it, move on.

 

The problem is what she said will be ignored but if a man said that but replaced short men with fat women women and men would come to the womens rescue while callign the guy a horrible person within seconds but we let women say whatever they want for some reason

 

Even if it was just trolling but i said something like asian women all look the same and are interchangable and have the bodies of a 8 year old boy id get killed

[ThaWholigan]

The problem is what she said will be ignored but if a man said that but replaced short men with fat women women and men would come to the womens rescue while callign the guy a horrible person within seconds but we let women say whatever they want for some reason

 

Even if it was just trolling but i said something like asian women all look the same and are interchangable and have the bodies of a 8 year old boy id get killed

 

You know why it will be ignored? Because short men (and other strugglers) seem to be bitching on the internet, or this site in particular, a hell of a lot more than fat women (save for POF). Drawing attention to your plight is one thing - making it the biggest deal in the world and trying to make people somehow feel bad for it even when there HAS been sympathy and they HAVE tried to uplift you and "come to your rescue" as it were, gets very jarring and annoying. Surely you understand that for every solution that is given to you to alleviate your problem, you guys always have an excuse or a reason why it won't work - and then continually chime into the regular "women are shallow" posts with the same sh*t.

 

I get it, you want to vent. Cool. But after a while - come on. That gets old. That's all you guys do.

 

Jane2011 has often tried to be nice and uplift you guys saying that short guys can get women, and she has even been attracted to short guys even though she prefers taller guys. She's been made to feel like a dick before because of that, even though she admitted it yet still tried to be uplifting. So she changes tack, because she knows that nothing will change your minds and she goes the opposite. And now the "realness" is being freed from the other parties .

 

Not to defend her, because I think she was unnecessarily mean - she didn't need to do that. But I understand why she did it. Because you guys will never get it - unless you stop with the BS. Get over it. Learn how to. When I was sucky with women, I got over it and learned. Now I don't suck as much as I did before. Stop taking it so seriously.

[AD1980]

You know why it will be ignored? Because short men (and other strugglers) seem to be bitching on the internet, or this site in particular, a hell of a lot more than fat women (save for POF). Drawing attention to your plight is one thing - making it the biggest deal in the world and trying to make people somehow feel bad for it even when there HAS been sympathy and they HAVE tried to uplift you and "come to your rescue" as it were, gets very jarring and annoying. Surely you understand that for every solution that is given to you to alleviate your problem, you guys always have an excuse or a reason why it won't work - and then continually chime into the regular "women are shallow" posts with the same sh*t.

 

I get it, you want to vent. Cool. But after a while - come on. That gets old. That's all you guys do.

 

Jane2011 has often tried to be nice and uplift you guys saying that short guys can get women, and she has even been attracted to short guys even though she prefers taller guys. She's been made to feel like a dick before because of that, even though she admitted it yet still tried to be uplifting. So she changes tack, because she knows that nothing will change your minds and she goes the opposite. And now the "realness" is being freed from the other parties .

 

Not to defend her, because I think she was unnecessarily mean - she didn't need to do that. But I understand why she did it. Because you guys will never get it - unless you stop with the BS. Get over it. Learn how to. When I was sucky with women, I got over it and learned. Now I don't suck as much as I did before. Stop taking it so seriously.

 

This is a datign site everyone vents about everyhting its not true that you dotn hear women venting here a lot i just think male "venting" people have way less tolerance for then the other way around for whatever reasons

 

Partly because the females will relate to the female bitching and some males think its a good way to brown nose and earn a few brownie points if they bring their cape in those threads

[ThaWholigan]

This is a datign site everyone vents about everyhting its not true that you dotn hear women venting here a lot i just think male "venting" people have way less tolerance for then the other way around for whatever reasons

 

Partly because the females will relate to the female bitching and some males think its a good way to brown nose and earn a few brownie points if they bring their cape in those threads

Not really - you guys are pretty consistent . Women bitch about different things, and when they go over the top, they are reminded not to do so.

 

You guys vent about the same sh*t over and over again. Remember - this is also a site for advice. And you guys never take the advice - ever. Like I said, there's always a reason why it's too hard. That's why everyone gets annoyed with you guys. The other reason is because it's never your fault, it's always women's fault for being too shallow. Just like for a few women, it's always men fault that women's dating lives suck - it's stupid.

 

Instead of always venting, how about listening for a change? Then maybe women like Jane2011 won't be so unnecessarily mean. Start being bold and start taking some advice. Stop being afraid.

 

I understand where she's coming from by being mean - even I'm getting tired of talking about this. You guys like to act like I'm some kind of anomaly because I could improve - I'm proving that you guys can do it too.

Edited March 7, 2013 by ThaWholigan

[mesmerized]

What a joke. Guys on here are way more mean and rude sometimes. Now one women does it back and all the guys are suicidal already. Lol

[ltjg45]

What a joke. Guys on here are way more mean and rude sometimes. Now one women does it back and all the guys are suicidal already. Lol

 

Please.....

 

Like I approve of the males doing the same thing themselves. I cut the males down just as quickly.

 

This is why I have very few friends total (as in around 5, if that). I don't tolerate this garbage from either gender.

 

If it was a male, I would get into a fight with him. If it was a female, I would just walk away and not give a damn.

 

I don't take sides for anyone, not even my own family. If they want to be my enemies, they can join the rest of the scum on this planet.

[somedude81]

What a joke. Guys on here are way more mean and rude sometimes. Now one women does it back and all the guys are suicidal already. Lol

The vast majority of the guys on here who are rude are trolls.

 

So what does that say about Jane?

[AD1980]

What a joke. Guys on here are way more mean and rude sometimes. Now one women does it back and all the guys are suicidal already. Lol

 

Because you cant change height a fat women whos down about her lack of prospects can lose weight

[mesmerized]

The vast majority of the guys on here who are rude are trolls.

 

So what does that say about Jane?

 

You yourself have been rude at times too lol

 

Because you cant change height a fat women whos down about her lack of prospects can lose weight

 

And women cant change their age. If I wanted to get this angry every time some guy said women nearing thirty are washed out or aren't dating material, I would probably have done a mass shooting by now lol

[AD1980]

You yourself have been rude at times too lol

 

 

 

And women cant change their age. If I wanted to get this angry every time some guy said women nearing thirty are washed out or aren't dating material, I would probably have done a mass shooting by now lol

 

Well even if you beleived that nonsense from those idiots at least women have a prime unlike short men:laugh:

[mesmerized]

Well even if you beleived that nonsense from those idiots at least women have a prime unlike short men:laugh:

 

At least some men always got it but all women have to deal with agism. Short men can have a prime too, if they have any other quality going on for them. The problem is the short men who whine here really have nothing else going on.

[Sun Devil]

Why would you assume I have nothing else going on. I have several hobbies, I live an active life, and I haveore money than most of my friends, yet none of them attract women.

[silicone]

What we find attractive is subjective. Personally, I find Asian girls to be somewhat not appealing or flattering whatsoever. A tall girl can do it for me, I have no height preference. I once saw an ok looking Asian girl, but she was mediocre. Nothing special. I'm just not attracted to them, sexually.

Overweight and obese women? Probably don't have a lot in common unless you are very serious about losing that weight and are seeing results.

 

 

I don't care about women and girls anymore. I am much more content going my own way without someone telling me what to do. Maybe one day I'll open up, but for now, only I matter in my world.

 

No one my age deserves me anyway. I am too good for a lot of people. I am invested I to my own future.

[Jane2011]

Dear Short Men:

 

How are you today?

 

Here is my heartfelt advice to you:

 

1) Be sexy

2) Be everything a woman could want in a man (except tall)

3) Be charming

4) Be awesome

 

If you are not these things, it’s just not going to work. The truth is, short men all over the world have women. If you are struggling and spending years and years without a woman in your life, you are not succeeding in being the aforementioned things. You need to become sexy, charming, and awesome.

 

As I’m sure other posters have mentioned in this thread, there are plenty of taller men who say (and are being honest in saying) that their shorter male friends fare better than they when it comes to getting women. My ex-boyfriend, for example, is 5’11” tall. Now, he does get women; in fact, he does pretty well for himself. But his two closest friends, who are 5’7” and 5’6”, get more than he does. In fact, there is a woman who my ex wanted who didn’t want him, but who did want his 5’6” tall friend. Said woman was 5’7”.

 

I am a short woman who prefers taller men. You will receive no apologies from me about this, now or ever, for I am an individual who is easily irritated by angry, immature men who blame women and act bratty about things.

 

That being said, I have been intensely attracted to men who were 5’6” before. They were sexy as hell, and I was way into them.

 

If you’re struggling so much with dating, I venture to say you’re just not freaking sexy and awesome enough.

 

And if you’re just not sexy and awesome enough, I do not know what to tell you.

 

That being said (about my attraction to shorter men occasionally in the past), I prefer taller men. So do most women.

 

Most of us have rejected men because they were too short. Or rather, we didn’t like them fully in the first place (personality-wise), but have thought in our minds, “And on top of that, he’s short…” In other cases, it truly is only because he is too short.

 

I speak the truth to you individuals.

 

Most of us, however, can and often do fall head over heels in love with men who are 5’5”, 5’6” and 5’7”, etc. [Hell, I chased after guys who were that height (they were after me too, but I would say I was a little more after them than they were after me).]

 

I reiterate, though: we [women] like when we fall for a taller guy and he falls for us more so than we like when we fall for a shorter guy and he falls for us.

 

I know this isn’t pleasant for you to hear. But you mustn’t become angry about it. Women aren’t going to change their preferences for you. Of this you can be assured. And women owe you nothing.

 

Women like the men they like, and no amount of anger, sorrow, or guilt-tripping on your part is going to make them like you instead of what they actually do like.

 

What will make them like you is your being sexy, charming, and awesome. So become that. If you are unable to do this, I do not know what to tell you.

 

Sincerely,

 

Jane2011

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

These girls in my club were talking about a date one of the girls went on. They all asked if the guy she is dating is taller, and all the girls agrred that the guy they will date must be tall. It seems that I cannot find any girl who will date a short guy

 

Just stop caring bro.

 

Don't listen to people when they say what they want. They don't actually know.

[ScreamingTrees]

Be sexy/awesome/kill yourself.

 

http://i49.tinypic.com/2mo4io7.jpg

[JuneJulySeptember]

 

I reiterate, though: we [women] like when we fall for a taller guy and he falls for us more so than we like when we fall for a shorter guy and he falls for us.

 

 

This is pretty much the equivalent of me saying to my girlfriend, "You know, I would like you so much better if you were skinnier. I just can't help it. I like what I like."

 

The truth of the matter is she does have a few extra pounds. And the truth of the matter is ... I can help it.

 

Not all women think like that. And that's coming from a poster that the feminists here love to hate.

Edited March 8, 2013 by JuneJulySeptember

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Also, I'm 5'6 and I've NEVER had the issues that people describe here.

 

But I also DON'T CARE what women want. I'm not spending my time trying to be a guy that girls want. I don't analyze them. I don't break down their habits or even notice what they do. I don't care.

 

I'm pretty much the male equivalent of that Jane chick. I won't even look at any girl that's less than a 7. When I go out to bars and clubs, I actually get multiple girls into me and play them off each other. Oftentimes, they buy ME drinks (god, I love equal rights). Then sometimes, I bang them in my car afterwards. Sometimes, I date them. Sometimes, I do nothing and have fun.

 

If being short was a dealbreaker, I wouldn't be able to do the things I do.

 

Honestly, the mindsets of people here truly astound me. Guys can get away with so much more than they think they can.

[MrCastle]

Dear Short Men:

 

How are you today?

 

Here is my heartfelt advice to you:

 

1) Be sexy

2) Be everything a woman could want in a man (except tall)

3) Be charming

4) Be awesome

 

If you are not these things, it’s just not going to work. The truth is, short men all over the world have women. If you are struggling and spending years and years without a woman in your life, you are not succeeding in being the aforementioned things. You need to become sexy, charming, and awesome.

 

As I’m sure other posters have mentioned in this thread, there are plenty of taller men who say (and are being honest in saying) that their shorter male friends fare better than they when it comes to getting women. My ex-boyfriend, for example, is 5’11” tall. Now, he does get women; in fact, he does pretty well for himself. But his two closest friends, who are 5’7” and 5’6”, get more than he does. In fact, there is a woman who my ex wanted who didn’t want him, but who did want his 5’6” tall friend. Said woman was 5’7”.

 

I am a short woman who prefers taller men. You will receive no apologies from me about this, now or ever, for I am an individual who is easily irritated by angry, immature men who blame women and act bratty about things.

 

That being said, I have been intensely attracted to men who were 5’6” before. They were sexy as hell, and I was way into them.

 

If you’re struggling so much with dating, I venture to say you’re just not freaking sexy and awesome enough.

 

And if you’re just not sexy and awesome enough, I do not know what to tell you.

 

That being said (about my attraction to shorter men occasionally in the past), I prefer taller men. So do most women.

 

Most of us have rejected men because they were too short. Or rather, we didn’t like them fully in the first place (personality-wise), but have thought in our minds, “And on top of that, he’s short…” In other cases, it truly is only because he is too short.

 

I speak the truth to you individuals.

 

Most of us, however, can and often do fall head over heels in love with men who are 5’5”, 5’6” and 5’7”, etc. [Hell, I chased after guys who were that height (they were after me too, but I would say I was a little more after them than they were after me).]

 

I reiterate, though: we [women] like when we fall for a taller guy and he falls for us more so than we like when we fall for a shorter guy and he falls for us.

 

I know this isn’t pleasant for you to hear. But you mustn’t become angry about it. Women aren’t going to change their preferences for you. Of this you can be assured. And women owe you nothing.

 

Women like the men they like, and no amount of anger, sorrow, or guilt-tripping on your part is going to make them like you instead of what they actually do like.

 

What will make them like you is your being sexy, charming, and awesome. So become that. If you are unable to do this, I do not know what to tell you.

 

Sincerely,

 

Jane2011

 

Boy. All that writing and not 1 like.

[Sun Devil]

The only problem is that I cant seem to find any girls who date short guys. I do not know where to look

[PJKino]

Dear Short Men:

 

fully in the first place (personality-wise), but have thought in

I reiterate, though: we [women] like when we fall for a taller guy and he falls for us more so than we like when we fall for a shorter guy and he falls for us.

 

I know this isn’t pleasant for you to hear. But you mustn’t become angry about it. Women aren’t going to change their preferences for you. Of this you can be assured. And women owe you nothing.

 

Sincerely,

 

Jane2011

 

What exactly is the point of you saying this?

 

I mean most men probably like it better when a white women likes us as oppose to an asian one but why would i go out of my way to say that other then blatantly trying to be a jerkoff