Giha Posted June 11, 2013 Share Posted June 11, 2013 I don't know if I should wish to have anything ridiculous to complain about my ex. There is very little wrong I can see in her (1 month post-BU) Link to post Share on other sites
SuperGeek Posted June 11, 2013 Share Posted June 11, 2013 Sorry but, this is a BAD thing to bash your ex's new GF about. Going to a community college is a smart thing to do these days as it's cheaper and won't leave you with loads of debt like going to an expensive private school will do. I met a girl from the USA recently and she told me she had 80,000 USD of loans for a 4 year degree and that just blows me away. You can buy a house for that much where I live. Not trying to derail this thread, but I hate seeing people get bashed for going to a community college when it's often a smart thing to do instead of going into massive debt. *Goes to a community college (which is fine, not bashing that in itself at all, although in comparison I go to one of the best colleges in the state), and failed two classes this past semester Link to post Share on other sites
CorridorE Posted June 11, 2013 Share Posted June 11, 2013 (edited) Sorry but, this is a BAD thing to bash your ex's new GF about. Going to a community college is a smart thing to do these days as it's cheaper and won't leave you with loads of debt like going to an expensive private school will do. I met a girl from the USA recently and she told me she had 80,000 USD of loans for a 4 year degree and that just blows me away. You can buy a house for that much where I live. Not trying to derail this thread, but I hate seeing people get bashed for going to a community college when it's often a smart thing to do instead of going into massive debt. I completely agree with you. I myself almost went to a community college for the first two years of my education because my family is very tight on money... that is why I wrote specifically that I was not bashing her on that fact alone... However, I know her family is wealthy and the only reason I included it was because she failed two classes this semester, so if she hopes to get accepted into another college later, it's not going to happen with her current work-ethics. Okay I'm done now; I haven't thought about her in a long time and prefer not to because I don't care what she does... just wanted to comment and say I agree with you. Edited June 11, 2013 by CorridorE 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Love4Pain Posted June 21, 2013 Author Share Posted June 21, 2013 It's ok Corridor. And it's not wishing to have anything ridiculous, it's just that over time you tend to realize your ex was not the perfect, wonderful person you may have thought they were when you were together. I thought that my ex was a great guy and we talked all the time during our long distance relationship, but after all these months after our break up I see what kind of person he is and I kind of feel like I had wool over my eyes. Sadly, again, most likely the day or next day after my last post I've come to find out my ex and the girl he was seeing have secretly gotten back together after one week of breaking up. He cheated on her 4 times, makes fun of her in front of her face to others, makes sexual jokes to others in front of her, and could probably care less about her as a person, so I guess his talk of "being in pain and regretting what he's done to our relationship" was a lie he was telling himself, because all he actually cares about is himself and doing/saying whatever is necessary to make himself feel good. Literally, as soon his lesbian friend told him she didn't want to sleep with him anymore he goes right back to the girl whom he has a joke of a relationship with. I wonder how long that's going to be a "secret", everyone has so much sympathy for this girl who posts about how hard it is, but they don't even realize she's not talking about being broken up. I can't imagine if I actually lived around these two. Life can be a cruel joke sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
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