nicolewest Posted March 6, 2013 Share Posted March 6, 2013 I met my bf in the fall of 2010, started relationship in January 2011. I feel like everytime I am close to moving on he calls or does something to pull me back in. I told him in December that my feelings have changed, that I didn't feel appreciated and that I was starting to resent him and I didn't want to feel that way. I feel like finally now he is understanding what Im talking about. He feels distant, because I don't call him anymore (we speak at least every 2 weeks) and that he feels hurt. Its interesting how the only time I hear about his heart is when Im causing it pain. He says he is returning in April but I dont believe him. He initially was supposed to be gone for 4 months but its been a year and he gave me dates of his possible return and those dates just flew by. He asked me to visit him at his parents home for Christmas but I declined due to exams and me spending time with my grandmother I haven't seen in years. When he calls he says he misses me. He says that when he returns he wants to prove his feelings for me. Is it worth it? Worth giving it another try or just move on now? Who even knows when he will return. Its just hard to believe given the previous disappointments. I keep thinking about if I can spend the rest of my life with him and I'm unsure. Link to post Share on other sites
Absewarrior Posted March 8, 2013 Share Posted March 8, 2013 nicolewest: When you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with...you will know it all the way down to your bones. There will be no doubt and you will look forward to every time they come around with enthusiasm and joy. Trust me, been married for many years and I still smile and feel excited when my spouse comes through the front door. AW 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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