spice4life Posted March 9, 2013 Share Posted March 9, 2013 I see so many people speaking about painful relationships in this forum. They are in denial and think it's love. Love does not manipulate,cause so much confusion and take you on a roller-coaster ride. We are taught that love means suffering. I understand IT DOES NOT!!! Then we try to fix the person, thinking if we show our loyalty and how dedicated we are to their "issues" they will love us. We believe noone understands them like we do. We do not realize that we do not understand them at all. If we did, we would understand the pain we are in is caused by them and their disfunction and run like hell because we will be pulled down into the abyss with them. We need to love ourselves enough to stop trying to fix people in order to get love. Thank you so much again, lJola. You're awesome! I hear you loud and clear. I actually thought I was past trying to fix people and realized these last few days that I was sadly mistaken. I thought I learned that lesson long ago, but now I know there were some residuals hanging around. I see it clear as day. It makes me sad and relieved at the same time. Link to post Share on other sites
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