john2345 Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 I don't know where to begin! Let me start by saying that I have been in a ten year relationship with my girlfriend. She has 2 sister, who are very attractive. Ever since I could remember I've been having dreams about one of her sisters. Most of the dreams are about her sister and I laying in bed and cuddling up, but it feels more than just cuddling. It feels like we are falling in love, you know, the butterflies and all. In every dream I know that what I'm doing is wrong, as if my sub-consciousness knows that I have a girlfriend, strange?? I haven't had any dreams of her sister and I having sex nor kissing, but that changed last night. Last night I had a dream where I snuck out of my girlfriends bedroom and went into her sisters room. Her sis was in bed watching TV and I jumped in bed with her. She was happy to see me, I knew this because not only could I see it on her face but I could feel it. Next thing you know I kiss her lips. It felt sooo real! We only kissed in this dream, but it felt like sex because the kisses were passionate. Last nights dream was the most intense one I have had about her sister. Now here's the weird part. I do not talk to her sister, we have no friendship. We ignore each other at family functions, although there are times where we talk but it's small talk. As a materialistic female, she is not my type, but I can't say that I'm not attracted to her. My question is why do I keep having dreams about her sister who I've known for the past 10 YEARS!!??? Are they just silly dreams and deal with them like I have or is there something more to them???? Does she have dreams about me?? I hope I'm not the only one out there going through this type of torture:( Thanks and take care all. Link to post Share on other sites
Jedi Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 I'm just a kid, but what I think is you should think of all the amazing qualities of your GF, and remember why you have been with her for 10 years. It truly can't be love if you've only talked to the sister for a couple of times. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Forsaaaken Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 This is just my opinion for what it's worth. But I somewhat mirror what Jedi said to a point. For whatever reason caused you to have feelings for your GF, must have been sincere and definitely more real than simply a dream!! Like many dreams, they are simply dreams, that really lead nowhere other than you wake up and either you are horrified by either a nightmare type dream, a dream about a loved one that's passed away, which does apparently affect each of us differently, or maybe like you said, because she is attractive, the raging male hormone side of you are simply not being "satisfied" enough with your GF, so your dreams are a way of dealing somehow. But if you and your GF's sister rarely even talk and normally avoid each other, I sincerely doubt she's having hot, sexual fantasy dreams of you. Id just enjoy the dreams if the somewhat satisfy you and leave it at that. Now, if you're completely unhappy with your GF and her sister would show genuine signs of wanting something more with you, I'd just dream away until you either end up actually waking up with your underwear covered in your man juice and be satisfied!! I wouldn't make trouble in the family over some dreams of you wanting to do your GF's sister!! Maybe way down the road, your GF & you may end things and maybe you and her sister may actually live out those dreams!! Until then, remember why you love your GF and make the VERY best of it! Qq Best of Luck!!! ~DWK~ Link to post Share on other sites
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