mammasita Posted March 12, 2013 Share Posted March 12, 2013 41 days of NC and the about 6pm this evening. I get a text: Hey (my name) this is (his name). I found some paperwork in my car that you might want. I'd like to come by and drop it off and grab (his daughters name) toys. (I have a box in the attic filled wth his daughters toys.) I replied: Rather not. Put the papers in the mail or give to (his sisters name). I will give the toys to (his sisters name) next time I see her. He replied: Ok. Link to post Share on other sites
Addison312 Posted March 13, 2013 Share Posted March 13, 2013 How are you feeling now? Link to post Share on other sites
na49 Posted March 13, 2013 Share Posted March 13, 2013 Ouch. He talks to you like you're no one. Strictly business. I mean I wouldn't expect anything less, but it still has to hurt. You have the right idea telling him to mail it instead of coming by to drop it off and giving the toys to his sister. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mammasita Posted March 13, 2013 Author Share Posted March 13, 2013 Yeah it kinda sucked actually. And now I've seen his new phone number....... BAH! Link to post Share on other sites
cdt76 Posted March 13, 2013 Share Posted March 13, 2013 Hang in there mammasita. They always come back. So be tough. You did the right thing. Very good response. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted March 13, 2013 Share Posted March 13, 2013 All communication with my ex was exactly like that the week or 2 after the BU. ALL business, wrapping up a few loose ends. It is better that way for both of you. He is actually being semi respectful by not asking anything etcetera. This is how a dumper should behave. And your response was perfect. Cav Link to post Share on other sites
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