healthnut Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 Ok, need a question answered, even though I think I know the answer. Just looking for someone to confirm. This is a follow up to my post "Need Opinion on Something". The OM emailed me and asked me a bunch of questions regarding my marriage like, "can you see yourself with him for the rest of your life?" "Are you happy?" etc.. I want to write him and say "YES" on all accounts, but should I? Should I just ignore it and hope that it goes away or should I write him back telling him yes and let him know to not wonder. Thanks for any opinions. Link to post Share on other sites
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 You dated this OM? You are married? Link to post Share on other sites
Author healthnut Posted September 7, 2004 Author Share Posted September 7, 2004 Oh, no! We never dated, I meant OM in "other man" trying to come between me and my husband. Here's the original post: Question, I am a married woman, and met someone about a year ago at a party who is not my husband. I was attracted to him, and was not married at the time. Nothing has happened between us, however, he claims through conversations at the party that he really likes me. Anyway, I ran into him again and he told me that he's never met anyone like me and that he wanted it to go further; both in trying to pursue a relationship as well as other things (use your imagination). My question is this: While he's emailed me, I haven't responded. Don't get me wrong, he's quite sexy, however, I'm married. It's a bit hard resisting him, but I know that's the right thing to do. I haven't contacted him at all, and wanted to know what type of person goes after a married woman? He seems nice, but I view this as a flaw in character. Anyone have any opinions on this? Just wondering. So, now I've posted the question in this thread to find out if I should send him an email telling him that yes, I am indeed happy now stop contacting me, or should I just let it go and hope he moves on? Link to post Share on other sites
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 If you answer he is probably going to take it as a sign that you are not as happy as you claim to be or else you would not even bother in replying to his e-mail. Believe me, you do not want to put yourself in a situation where you can be tempted because it will totally mess up your life. I trully belive that you are better off not replying to his e-mail. By the way hoe did he get your email? Link to post Share on other sites
Author healthnut Posted September 7, 2004 Author Share Posted September 7, 2004 Thanks, I didn't look at it like that. I won't be emailing him back. Email was given to him by some mutual friends who didn't know any better. Link to post Share on other sites
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 Glad I could help Link to post Share on other sites
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