Jeff1515 Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 My girlfriend of almost 4 years just told me she wanted a break, she then when on to tell me she didnt want to be with me but we might get back together sometime. We have a 2 year old boy that we love very much and they both live with me, she is not moving out, were just not doing boyfriend girlfriend stuff. Things have been going great I don't kknow what could have possibly happened, she says that its not another guy and that she is not looking for a new guy or anything like that, she just wants a break, could someone please tell me how to get her back and what she is doing all of this for. Our 4th anniversary is coming up and I dont want to be split up on that night. I would love some input by anyone who cares. Thank you very much Link to post Share on other sites
peach04 Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 Hey Jeff1515, Don't worry...okay. I'm going through the same thing with my bf of one and a half years. At first i thought i might want someone else, but after i really thought about it i just want a time apart. There's nothing wrong with that. If she says it's not someone else then it's not anybody else. She just wants alittle bit of breathing room. That's all. Things will get better. So don't be over thinking things. You know... getting the wrong wires crossed. Just give her alittle time because if you don't then you will probably just push her away. You love her and she loves you, things will look up soon. Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 I agree, just give her the space she's wanting. If things are looking better by your anniversary maybe you could buy her something really sweet to show her how much you still love her and miss her. Don't smother her though, she asked for time and space and all you can do is give it to her. Link to post Share on other sites
Trager Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 I have to agree as well, i've been the one to ask for a break before, i never intended to leave, but i needed to back up and look at everything:) I'm still with him, everythings fine, just dont worry to much Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted September 7, 2004 Share Posted September 7, 2004 Go out one night this weekend, pick up a girl, and bring her back to your apartment to hangout in front of your girlfriend. That will help her realize she doesn't really want space. Link to post Share on other sites
Bender donetat Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 Bro, trust me man.......as much as it hurts BACK OFF......i couldnt and it almost destroyed my relationship.......she just needs to asses her life and what she wants, she cannot deny her heart and most likely WILL be back to herself in a couple of weeks IF you can give her TOTAL space.... Link to post Share on other sites
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