sugarnspice Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 I'm new here...so this is my first post. Ok, so my ex broke up with me about 2 months ago. He had told me a month before this that he was moving to Louisiana (we live in Texas right now) but he wanted me to move there once he got settled with his new job. When he broke up with me he said it was because I was taking it all too hard and that I had become too attatched. I called him a couple of weeks later and he didn't seem to really want to talk to me so I decided I'd never call him again, or at least not for a long time. But this weekend I called him and he answered which was a complete surprise. We talked for a while and he was pretty nice about everything. He asked how my boyfriend was doing in a sort of harsh voice...thing is, I don't have a boyfriend...he was just trying to find out if I was with anyone I guess. I told him I wanted to know exactly why he broke up with me because he really hadn't made it too clear and he said that I was too young for him (I'm 19 and he's 21). I told him that wasn't a big difference in age and he said he meant that I wasn't on the same level as him...probably because I still live with my parents...even though he lives back with his mom now...but my parents actually have rules which his mom doesn't. He also said he didn't want to get too attatched to anyone since he's leaving. He's been meaning to leave for 2 months now but still hasn't. So anyway, I asked him if I was gonna be able to see him before he left and he said he didn't know...that for all he knew I was calling him up for a "booty call". I told him I wasn't because, of course, that would make things even harder. Then he said he just thought it was random that I was calling him now since I haven't called him in a while. I told him I missed him and he said he missed me too. I called him a couple of days later and we just told each other what our plans were for that night and then he said to call him later on. I didn't. I'm planning on calling him later this week...but I dunno...does it seem like he might possibly want to get back together? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 Next time, when he asks how your boyfriend is tell him 9 inches and growing. He sounds like a jerk. A dumb jerk. 21 is not "too old" for 19. I think you shouldn't call him. Let him call you, after all he dumped you. You're worth more than what he gives you!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author sugarnspice Posted September 8, 2004 Author Share Posted September 8, 2004 Lol...thanks. He is a jerk...but I can't help how I feel or I'd be over him. I just miss how he treated me when we were first together I guess. Every single one of my family and friends tell me that if I get back with him, I am being about as stupid as I could possibly be. Most of this is because he doesn't have a good background (family wise and some things he has done). He didn't even graduate from high school... Link to post Share on other sites
Tracy Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 No, he doesn't want to get back together. He isn't even calling you! You're calling him. Quit for a while and let him call you. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 Regardless of level of education (although failing to graduate from highschool CAN indicate that someone really can't commit, to anything) He's not going to just start treating you better, all of a sudden. Realize that, then you won't even HAVE to worry if he wants to get back together. Just stop calling him-all it's going to take is time to get over this guy. Eventually, you'll start noticing better prospects, and jerk face won't even enter into your headspace. Link to post Share on other sites
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