hla76 Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 my exboyfriend of a month and 1 week now had his new girlfriend move here.she is from england.i heard it from a few people.She has been here since sunday.When i found this out today i just about broke down in tears.I never thought this was gonna happen to us because we were together for so long.I am still 100% in love with him with all my heart and i dont know what to do.I have not ran into them yet or anything like that.I know i will one day though.And when i do i do not know how i will react.right now i just want to kick her butt.I guess it is just because i am so angry right now and i need to take my anger out on somone.I need some advice on how to get on with my life and try to get over him.I have tried and can not do it on my own.so if anyone out there has any advice for me please let me know because i am really desperte right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 You must feel awful It's always hard when you are the one that loved more than the other. The healing process will vary, it all depends on how strong you are and/or how long you were with this guy. I hope you never run into them because I imagine it's going to hurt too much to even put into words. He obviously did not care for you because 1 month is way too quick to have someone move in with you. Try to focus on doing things with your family and friends. Think about how much he's hurting you and that should give you strength to pull through this one. Don't worry time heals everything. Link to post Share on other sites
aFighter Posted September 8, 2004 Share Posted September 8, 2004 well my ex married the guy she cheated on me with just two months after i found out & we broke up. at least you're not in my shoes Seriously though, just let it go. They're not worth it. Life really is far too short to be letting other people make you feel this way, take it from me. Link to post Share on other sites
Splatty Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 well my ex married the guy she cheated on me with just two months after i found out & we broke up. at least you're not in my shoes People who marry the person they cheated with are doomed to fail. I read like 95+% of them fail. They are relationships that are not started or conducted for the right reasons. They are people who hurt and feel that someone else will fix them, they have to fix themself first. I feel for you but you will have the last laugh... if that's your thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hla76 Posted September 18, 2004 Author Share Posted September 18, 2004 well I saw the 2 of them together the other day.It phased me but i did not cry or anything like that.I was hurt very much and I was also mad.I wanted to go up tp her and beat the living hell out of her but I kept my calm and didnt do anything about it.I wanted to though.It still hurts that he started seeing somone else so quick.But now I need somone to tell me somthing.What does it mean since I did not shed one tear.Does it mean I am over him or does it mean I just know it is time to go on with my life or what?Please anyone out there that can answer my question please do so.I just need this question answered. Link to post Share on other sites
aFighter Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 It means you're healing. You have every right to be mad but the fact that it didn't get to you enough to make you cry is a good sign, hang in there Link to post Share on other sites
Author hla76 Posted September 18, 2004 Author Share Posted September 18, 2004 well I take what I said back now.My sister and I ran into them today at the grocery store.I had to go out to the truck because it hit me really hard.When I got to the truck I broke down in tears.My sister had to finish my shopping for me because I could not be in there with them in the same store.I was shacking all over and I could not think straight.So I guess I am not over him yet.I had a feeling I wasnt,but I guess I had to see the 2 of them together to find out the answer to my question.It hurt like hell though.And when my sister and I were pulling out of the parking lot they were standing on the side walk and they looked right at me and I think they saw me crying.I know that wasnt good either because now they know I was upset and all.I did not want them to see me like that.But I could not help it.When I get emotional I cant help who is around and most of the time I dont care who is around.Well thats all for now.I thought I would just update you all on my situation. Link to post Share on other sites
aFighter Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 That's horrible Just hang in there ok? It won't hurt like that forever. Link to post Share on other sites
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