Re: problem

[Tony T]

First of call, you should carry a barg bag with you at all times.

 

Your body has been trained to react to the excitement of a lady by throwing up. A weird reaction to excitement but I'll accept that. Some people's hearts race, others break out in hives. Your case is pretty rare.

 

Your only cure will be to somehow train your body to react differently. This situation started because your body began to associate excitement over ladies with throwing up. It may have happened once...and then continued as the association strengthened.

 

You need to change this association. Remain calm and approach some pretty girls. When you feel yourself getting excited, take your right hand and tap your left wrist five times. Do this exercise over and over until eventually, you will feel a sensation in your left wrist when you are around pretty girls...and you won't throw up.

 

This is called neuroassociative conditioning. And what you are doing here is changing associations. Hopefullly one day, you can just be around pretty girls and have no bodily response at all.

 

But, until you get this down right, keep the bar bag close by.

 

This exercise should work. If not, see your school counsellor or a private therapist as soon as possible. Girls are not really fond of guys who throw up around them continuously.

[Paulie]

Don't worry about it, man...it'll go away. Just keep making yourself go around hot chicks. It'll go away. The worst thing you can do is to give into this fear of being around girls because it might make you vomit. That'll only make matters worse...trust me.

 

Paulie

[Manning]

Are you a F*ggot? OH SORRY, i mean are you gay?

I'm a junior in high school and when I get around a girl that I like, and an intimate situation arises, I always get sick to my stomach and throw up. This has been occurring for about three years. Is there anything I can do so I?m not so nervous around girls? It's not like I'm afraid of them or anything I just get sick and have to throw up because I get too excited.

[Tony T]

Since he states he gets excited, I doubt he is gay. However, his post is very vague. I don't know if he throws up just being near them, or during more intimate moments such as right before sex...his post eludes to getting sick when he gets more "intimate", whatever that means to him.

[Deejette]

You really need help with this acute and chronic anxiety. As Tony says, there are techniques you can learn that will recondition your brain to not have that kind of reaction. But you cannot cure yourself by yourself.

Since he states he gets excited, I doubt he is gay. However, his post is very vague. I don't know if he throws up just being near them, or during more intimate moments such as right before sex...his post eludes to getting sick when he gets more "intimate", whatever that means to him.