FoolishMe Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 Hi, I posted about 2 1/2 weeks ago. I walked away from the MM man that I love. The pain was exactly like everyone here said it would be. I'm so very proud of myself though because I made a decision to walk away and now it has been nearly a month and I've had NO CONTACT with him whatsovever. My cell phone rang from an unrestricted number and I did not answer. In the limited number of relationships I've had, I've always been the one that ended it. The difference here is that I've never walked away from someone that I still love. If we are meant to be together, HE will do what he needs to do to make it happen. Period, end of story. On a more cheerful note, I went out on Friday night to a dance. I was with my sister and a couple of friends and we had an OK time...most of our fun was made amongst ourselves. Sunday evening, I was up on a dating website chatting with this guy. His picture was posted and I liked his profile. I didn't post my picture because I'm just not really comfortable with doing so. Anyway, he asked if I could email him a picture of me and I did.....he told me that he saw me at the dance on Friday night!!! How freaky is that? He even told me what I was wearing...then he went on to say "not that I noticed or anything"....I thought that was cute. Turns out that he is a police officer about 40 minutes from where I live. He's my age, never been married, no children, NO BAGGAGE. We talked on the phone and we are meeting for dinner this weekend. I'm still aching for the man I love but I've gotten a real boost and I know that this would be SO HEALTHY for me!!! I'll let you all know how the date goes. Foolish me Link to post Share on other sites
Quilly Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 Congratulations! Your strength in taking control of your life and future happiness gives hope to us all. There is life after MM! Hooray!!!! Thanks for sharing. Link to post Share on other sites
ep Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 Congratulations on having the strength to break from someone you love. One month is a long time. How did you do it? Doing the right thing is hard but you did it and now things are beginning to look up. What are the chances that the guy you were chatting with lives so close and was actually at the same dance - and noticed you! What a great story. Good luck and God bless. Let us know how the date goes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author FoolishMe Posted September 9, 2004 Author Share Posted September 9, 2004 Thank you for the accolades. You want to know how I did it? I did it cold turkey and HURT LIKE HELL!!! I still wake up thinking about my MM and have a difficult time falling asleep but at least I have a distraction. It was the most difficult thing I've ever done in my life. My MM needs to figure out his issues and if he comes back around me again, he better be divorced. Who knows, maybe the guy I'm going out with tomorrow night will sweep me off of my feet and when the MM shows up, I might need to be hypnotized into remembering him Thank you for your support Foolish Me Link to post Share on other sites
ep Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 That would be so fantastic. Things like that do happen, you know! Let us know! Link to post Share on other sites
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