dirtysweet Posted March 19, 2013 Share Posted March 19, 2013 (edited) I am friends with a guy online who flirted with me for a couple of weeks in a chatroom we both frequent. Everyone on there knows each other, we have regulars, but as I said he started flirting with me, and one day just kind of like it does, the switch went off that I liked him. So to the next part.... He and I talked alone and it wasn't a normal conversation. It was very sexual.... We talked again tonight and it was pretty normal and sometimes sexual. I feel disappointed in myself because I feel like I moved too fast (in some ways I'd rather not discuss here). It's the sort of thing that once you've gone there, you can't take it back. I don't feel like he pressures me into anything of course, not at all (and I have been pressured into stuff irl before). But I don't want to move too fast and have it just be all about sex. I'd like to get to know him. At the same time I don't want to be some internet FWB type chick. What do I do here? I feel like I'd ruin the flow if I talk to him about it, since we've only talked one on one a couple times now. Also I have no idea what he thinks, and I'd hate for him to be like, "Whoah, I'm just your friend, why are you talking about this stuff?" I KNOW it seems early to ask this sort of stuff, but I feel like under the circumstances I need some advice. Edited March 19, 2013 by dirtysweet Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted March 19, 2013 Share Posted March 19, 2013 You don't know this person IRL, right? Keep it that way. Link to post Share on other sites
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