linewife Posted March 19, 2013 Share Posted March 19, 2013 My husband is a lineman and works out of town through the week. At Valentine's day we went out, had some drinks, then ended up at a sex shop where he bought a pocket pussy for on the road. At the time I was fine with it although I was a little buzzed, but now I'm not so sure I'm OK with it. It just makes me feel weird knowing he has this toy he uses when he's not home with me. Should I get over it and let him enjoy himself while he's gone or ask him to get rid of it cause I'm not completely comfortable with it. Link to post Share on other sites
Sparty97 Posted March 19, 2013 Share Posted March 19, 2013 Do you have toys? That's all it is, a toy. It's not attached to anything with a pulse and it is essentially harmless fun. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author linewife Posted March 19, 2013 Author Share Posted March 19, 2013 That's true! I can deal much better with a toy rather than another woman LOL. Link to post Share on other sites
SmokeRat Posted March 19, 2013 Share Posted March 19, 2013 I wouldn't put too much thought into your husband owning a toy. Think of it this way, considering he is away so much, he'd have ample time to find himself someone with a pulse to feed his sexual urges. Instead, he'd rather get himself a self pleasure toy. That to me, sign that he'd rather be at home with you doing the same thing, but considering he can't, that toy is the next best thing. And I can guarantee you, he's probably using it, wishing it was you instead. Don't sweat the small things like this! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 Why does it bother you? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 My husband is a lineman and works out of town through the week. At Valentine's day we went out, had some drinks, then ended up at a sex shop where he bought a pocket pussy for on the road. At the time I was fine with it although I was a little buzzed, but now I'm not so sure I'm OK with it. It just makes me feel weird knowing he has this toy he uses when he's not home with me. Should I get over it and let him enjoy himself while he's gone or ask him to get rid of it cause I'm not completely comfortable with it. Better he bang that than a real one! Really. When he comes home, ask him to do it in front of you, and enjoy it! Have fun together.. Don't make him feel bad because you are feeling a bit weird about it. Men jerk off. Fact! IT doesn't matter how much sex they get, they still can squeeze one out in the shower! So is it that he is doing this without you and you feel left out or are you worried he's going to prefer it to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Eggplant Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 Don't be jealous of plastic. Masturbating is a natural way to get rid of old and dead sperm and make way for new ones, so you should be worried only if he doesn't masturbate. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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