Sarabi Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 you just have to keep reminding yourself about their TRUE character that came out in the end. Stay strong and do what you feel you need to in order to move on! Yes! Thank you for this! Its definitely what I need to do! Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 haha. classic. Not for me or any OW I know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author loredo21 Posted March 20, 2013 Author Share Posted March 20, 2013 Not for me or any OW I know. i'm sorry. did i misunderstand? I thought it was a joke?? can someone explain? sorry if i offended anyone with that. Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 i'm sorry. did i misunderstand? I thought it was a joke?? can someone explain? sorry if i offended anyone with that. No offense taken! Just saying that its not really classic for all OW to take money from a MM to shop or live off of. I suppose semantics come into play here because I wouldn't call that an OW, but rather a mistress or kept woman. Not that those are bad labels, just different ones. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author loredo21 Posted March 20, 2013 Author Share Posted March 20, 2013 ohhh I was confused. for some reason i thought 2sure was kidding and i was only commenting on the joke being classic. not the event of shopping on someone else's bill. i never got gifts from my exMOM so I wouldn't know too much about that. Link to post Share on other sites
Catplates Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 I miss nothing. That's no reflection on the relationship, or the feelings I had for him, but I've moved on. I can remember how wonderful those times were, but I'm not wistful. Same here SG. Odd how intense those times were and now just a memory. Cat 1 Link to post Share on other sites
snowfun Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 I think I miss her smell the most. Bit weird maybe. It's not something you can recreate or a photograph you can go and look at; I wish I could. It made me feel happy and comforted and safe. I find missing the things we didn't get to experience more than the things we had already done. Walking our future dog, cooking in our future kitchen... that kind of thing. That's not to say I don't recall the past. I think about this a lot: we were out shopping and she'd run a little ahead of me and was doing a cute little walk. I don't see movement, it's more a snapshot or picture of that moment; Instagramed in my head. Her clothes, the shape of her body, her swinging hair. I'd do anything to go back to that. Man, I love her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Washingmachine1980 Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 Miss the friendship Miss going to the movies, going to the game, grabbing a beer Miss the trips We had a common interest that most find boring - enjoyed doing things concerning that hobby with someone who eye's didn't glass over Good with children - gave me lots of useful advice Someone who actually confided in me and asked for help and advice Someone who made me actually feel like I mattered Link to post Share on other sites
Wellington Posted March 21, 2013 Share Posted March 21, 2013 I miss: -The way nobody else existed in a room when we were together. -The way he looked at me. -his smile, perfect teeth and dimples -the way he picked me up to give me the biggest hugs -The way he kissed me. I had never been kissed like that before. -our talks. -the way he made love to me. (Yes, and seeing him naked, gorgeous) -our emails -the chemistry, butterflies -waking up beside him -lying in his arms -hearing him say I love you -him Before anyone bashes, I left him, it hurts, I know it was wrong so please keep that in mind. I dont need a bunch of "broken records" implying Im a douche. This area of the forum is for those who have had "A"s and seeking support. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted March 22, 2013 Share Posted March 22, 2013 ohhh I was confused. for some reason i thought 2sure was kidding and i was only commenting on the joke being classic. not the event of shopping on someone else's bill. i never got gifts from my exMOM so I wouldn't know too much about that. HaHa! Laredo, for me is was the case. As much as I enjoyed MMs company and was fond of him...the shopping, gifts, etc. were a mandatory part of our relationship. At the time, I thought it was fair he should take care of me in those ways because he could not in others. But yes, thats what I missed the most! No offense taken , it takes all kinds right? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 HaHa! Laredo, for me is was the case. As much as I enjoyed MMs company and was fond of him...the shopping, gifts, etc. were a mandatory part of our relationship. At the time, I thought it was fair he should take care of me in those ways because he could not in others. But yes, thats what I missed the most! No offense taken , it takes all kinds right? None of us would be learning anything if we were all the same. And life would be sooo boring! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RickFox Posted March 23, 2013 Share Posted March 23, 2013 Thought long and hard......... Not a thing. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Lostinlife4now Posted March 24, 2013 Share Posted March 24, 2013 A few posts made me a bit wistful, but I quickly got over it and my brain came back into working order and I remembered how could I miss something that was never real to start with. Lady Grey......OUCH!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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