Am I a bad boyfriend?

[Crazycrazy1]

Hey guys I'm new to this forum and I just wanted to address you guys or girls with some issues I'm having with my girlfriend.

 

Basically I'm a university student. I work 32 hours a week and go to school full time Monday to Friday. I try my best to balance out my time with my girlfriend and we basically assign Mondays and Thursday to see each other and anytime she wants to see I do my very best to see her. And Sunday is my time with my friends.

 

I know Im not perfect and I am trying my best to be the best person I can be, but it seems like nothing I do is enough to make her happy. My girlfriend tells me that I'm not romantic enough and I'm not contributing enough I'm the relationship also to add that I do not consider her as an important person in my life. Personally I find this absurd because I introduced her to all my family and friends, brought her to my moms wedding and take her out when she wants to and go out with her friends etc. and the messed up part is that because of her religion her family does not even know we are together and it's been 1.5 years we have been together.

 

The problem occurs when I decide to spend time with my friends in days we do not even see each other she gets upset and say that I give more time to my friends than her that I could have go to pick her up at work instead of going out with my friends. And ever first of the month we celebrate the day we got together official and due to exams I forgot it, but I told her I was sorry and I love you very much, but she was still upset and started to tell me that I'm an insensitive boyfriend and I do not even take 30 seconds to remember her. And every time she sees me with a girl (not flirting just talking) she doubts my fidelity. And she always wants to know where I am and if i forget to tell her she gets upset and tells me that I do not care about her. And every single time she grabs my phone and starts reading every single texts messages I sent and received.

 

The question is am I a bad boyfriend ? Because I really love this girl but at just that I cannot talk sense in to this girl what should I do?

 

Feel free to ask me anything for further information.

[TheGuard13]

No, it doesn't sound like you're a bad boyfriend. It sounds like your girlfriend is a bit controlling.

[Keenly]

You sound just like me, and the situations I have gone through any times. Your girlfriend is selfish and controlling. She doesn't respect you as a person because she feels she has the right to keep tabs on you and that you have no right to privacy. I know you may love this girl very Mich but her behavior is extremely unhealthy and it's only going to get worse. She will start making more demands, giving you ultimatums, eventually she will demand that you make Sundays your days as well.