backspn Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 I posted earlier about me and my ex. We broke up in April and she still calls me everyday and we usually get along great on the phone. It was a hard break up for both of us and we still are on really good terms. I would consider us to be more than friends. We both go to school in the same city but at different universities. I have been down here since June and she just got here 2 weeks ago. We have known each other for 4 years and I was her first love. I am 28 and she is 20. Ever since moving into her dorm I have asked her if she would like to hang out or do something together. She is very busy with school and she plays on a sports team at school so she doesnt have much time during the weekdays to do much. I did see her briefly as she stopped by and said "hi" last Friday and we had a nice long hug then she left, she was going home for the weekend. She makes plans with her other friends but wont make plans to hang out with me. I dont know if she doesnt want to see me or is she too scared to spend time with me since it has been so long. I asked her if she felt unconfortable when she came over and she said no, it felt normal. Why wont she see me? Is it me or is it her? She's never been the type to play games. I feel as though if we are to be friends then we have to spend time together, or what is the point of us talking on the phone. Please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Easy: Don't talk to her anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
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