he went back and she took him

[klfrngrl]

i have been dating him for 5 months he left the girl he lived with in the third month i didn't think he had even spoke to her in the last month until tonight right in the middle of me cooking dinner he got up and left i didn't relize it til after i was done i went to take him his plate and he was gone he called alittle while later and said he just went to lock his truck. i got mad and hung up. 2 hours later i decided to call her cell phone and ask her if he was there she said yes and he got on the phone. I am just devastated I can't believe it I did everything for him paid his way put my job on the line made sure he needed nothing I don't understand she knows he left her for me why would she take him back she treats him bad doesn't care if he comes or goes. now he said he hates me what did i do i'm seriously going through it i can't think about anything else.

 

right now they are in a motel room together just hours after he was in my bed with me and she is just loving it and he is just happy as can be and here i sit shattered crying like a big baby and i didn't do a thing wrong . i didn't even know about her in the beginning. they were married at one time she divorced him and then they started living together again but he never went home until now help

[born2day]

Don't do anything crazy. Just step back a little and look at the situation. Don't judge her for what happened. He made the choice to go to her. You need to ask him to be honest with you. Not an easy thing for many guys and alot of girls too. But don't let your feelings be hurt by what he says. You deserve to be happy. The fact that you can cook makes you already attractive to men. Belive me there are alot of women who can't or don't cook. I can't live with that and I can cook too. If he doesn't appreciate you there are alot of guys who will. Be patient, be honest and believe in yourself.