Gnote Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Very simple: How did you know? How did you know that the person you so affectionately call "the wife" or "hubby" deserved such distinction? How long did you know after you started dating? How long after you met? Was it always clear, or did it become clear over time? Basically I'd like to know some of your stories because I am sure having a struggle. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Smart? Check. Nice pert breasts? Check. Nice legs? Check. Nice face? Check. Nympho? Check. K, I'm done. (Sorry, I'm not married, so I cannot post constructively ) Link to post Share on other sites
binturong Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 For me, it became clear over time. I think it was the fact that we could have fights, but still be okay. Of course it was also about love, friendship, appreciation of one another, but I think the true test is to go through life together and still WANT to be with the other person, despite the arguments, the fights, the things that go wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Because he was everything I'd ever listed as wanting in a husband.....down to gorgeous blue eyse And he truely loved me, and he ACTED LIKE IT. He would actually pick me up on time for dates. He actually called when he said he would. He never lied to me once when we were dating. I needed a mand that was dependable. Link to post Share on other sites
Haytz Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 I'm sorry this may sound corny but I just knew. From the moment I saw him I knew. There was this chemistry between us from the start. Our first date we were so comfortable there has never been an awkward moment between us. I never believed it before that you could just know but for me that is how it was. Link to post Share on other sites
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