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I have a hard time meeting guys who want to properly court me. they always want a relationship where we just hang out at their place and just watch tv/sex without ever taking me anywhere. then I always see these same guys out in public with girls who are this skin tone

 

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i see a lot of black guys with girls who are in this color range and lighter, usually they are at the movie theater or at a restaurant.

 

but with me, (i'm darkskin) they just want a relationship that is behind closed doors.

 

that is why I want to bleach to a lighter color so I can be what most men find to be socially acceptable. the type of girl that they want to take out on dates in public, meet their friends, and family. i'm always the girl that no one even knows about or just the 'sidepiece'

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I guess we just don't choose how we're born hun. We just have to make the most of what we're given, and if that's a biased society, then I guess we have to deal with it. :c

 

I mean, that surgery sounds really expensive. I genuinely don't know many very black girls in relationships(here in the States, in africa I know tons of very black girls in relationships), though, I know a lot of black girls.

 

It's a bit hypocritical of you to lash out on short guys like in the other thread though. They also really can't change their situation, so it's kind of mean to just dick them over like that, as I'm sure many men are dicking you over because you're black.

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I guess we just don't choose how we're born hun. We just have to make the most of what we're given, and if that's a biased society, then I guess we have to deal with it. :c

 

I mean, that surgery sounds really expensive. I genuinely don't know many very black girls in relationships(here in the States, in africa I know tons of very black girls in relationships), though, I know a lot of black girls.

 

It's a bit hypocritical of you to lash out on short guys like in the other thread though. They also really can't change their situation, so it's kind of mean to just dick them over like that, as I'm sure many men are dicking you over because you're black.

I was hoping I'd have better luck with white men cause black guys all want lighter toned girls. but I dont know many white guys who want to publicly date a black girl.

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HoneyBadgerDontCare
I was hoping I'd have better luck with white men cause black guys all want lighter toned girls. but I dont know many white guys who want to publicly date a black girl.

 

Date some short guys since they all seem to like you so much.

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black guys will sleep with dark girls but they dont take them out in public. usually when i see them with a black girl at the mall or restaurant she is light complexioned.

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black guys will sleep with dark girls but they dont take them out in public. usually when i see them with a black girl at the mall or restaurant she is light complexioned.

 

You have to be a schtick. There's no way this is real.

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Are you sure you bleach? Or do you just have vitiligo?

no I don't have vitiligo. I just want lightskin. I'd like to get to Beyonce complexion

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No, I am not a troll. I am very serious about this topic

 

Cool. I'm a darkskinned black girl with a date on Friday. With a black man. Had one on Sunday, too. With a black man. In public. Crazy.

 

Happy bleaching! :)

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Missjones, I love dark sisters. We're both in the Midwest. Pm me your pic so I can see what we got. BTW, I'm a good looking 6'1" athletic white guy...supposedly right in your wheelhouse. You don't need a weave or bleached skin to kick it with me.

 

(Anybody want to put money on whether or not she sends a pic?)

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And on the off chance that you aren't trolling and are really bleaching, please be careful. Darkskinned black people who bleach often end up lightskinned with dark knuckles, elbows, knees, etc. b/c those areas are harder to lighten. Even more end up looking gray and ashy.

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HoneyBadgerDontCare
Cool. I'm a darkskinned black girl with a date on Friday. With a black man. Had one on Sunday, too. With a black man. In public. Crazy.

 

Happy bleaching! :)

 

Snowflake, I'm a white guy that would gladly date the f out of you (since I prefer darker skinned women that are cool) if you didn't have a date already and lived near me. ;)

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Snowflake, I'm a white guy that would gladly date the f out of you (since I prefer darker skinned women that are cool) if you didn't have a date already and lived near me. ;)

 

It's true. Honey badger doesn't give a sh*t. He's so nasty.

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I dont have any pictures. Don't want to share them anyway

 

Yeah but he's tall.....and white. :confused:

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This woman is more attractive than most women walking down the street so good example OP. She probabaly wouldn't give me the time of day and I'm white. Houston has a large African American community and there are people ranging in skin tone, including couples ranging in skin tone. Your too dark excuse is becuae you're insecure. I'm the same way, it's my weird head, my voice, women don't like red heads...

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This woman is more attractive than most women walking down the street so good example OP. She probabaly wouldn't give me the time of day and I'm white. Houston has a large African American community and there are people ranging in skin tone, including couples ranging in skin tone. Your too dark excuse is becuae you're insecure. I'm the same way, it's my weird head, my voice, women don't like red heads...

 

Awww, for some reason this post makes me want to hug you.

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