stillafool Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 black guys will sleep with dark girls but they dont take them out in public. usually when i see them with a black girl at the mall or restaurant she is light complexioned. This is absolutely not true! I know and have known lots of very dark skinned women who have no trouble getting dates or married. Most light skinned black men like dark skinned black women. Miss Jones the next time a guy just wants to come over tell him you want to go out. If they don't want to take you out in public then "next" them. Don't let them use you for sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted March 27, 2013 Author Share Posted March 27, 2013 The immediate reaction is that "hanging out / sex" and not going out only happens if you let it. Don't "hang out" with guys in the beginning. My other reaction was mrntally inserting "dark skinned" into your statement the other day about being grossed out at a guy's "pudgy little fingers" on you during sex. Just imagine if they were pudgy little dark skinned fingers. Maybe you can see a pattern there. Not hanging out doesn't really resolve the problem. it doesn't make them take me out on a date. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted March 27, 2013 Author Share Posted March 27, 2013 This is absolutely not true! I know and have known lots of very dark skinned women who have no trouble getting dates or married. Most light skinned black men like dark skinned black women. . this isn't true. a lot of lightskinned dudes have the same preferences as darkskinned men. look at chris brown and rapper T.I, both light complected black males who prefer women who are lighter than themselves. i run into this in real life too. Miss Jones the next time a guy just wants to come over tell him you want to go out. If they don't want to take you out in public then "next" them. Don't let them use you for sex i'll be 'nexting' guys for the rest of my life. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 i'd say jennifer hudson Excuse me but Jennifer Hudson is goodlooking and married (to a light skinned brother). What type of man are you interested in? Who would be your ideal type? Link to post Share on other sites
outsidethebox Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 It's your choice. Just don't complain about a decision you voluntarily made. You have a choice to be used or not. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 I guarantee you are better looking than T.I.'s wife. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted March 27, 2013 Author Share Posted March 27, 2013 Excuse me but Jennifer Hudson is goodlooking and married (to a light skinned brother). What type of man are you interested in? Who would be your ideal type? jennifer hudson's boyfriend is not very good looking and is rumored to be gay. i'm looking for a white man who is tall Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted March 27, 2013 Author Share Posted March 27, 2013 It's your choice. Just don't complain about a decision you voluntarily made. You have a choice to be used or not.i dont have a choice cause no man wants a real relationship with me. i've been involuntarily relegated to bootycall status. Link to post Share on other sites
outsidethebox Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 Only if you accept it. Nothing says you have to be in an unwanted relationship just to be able to "hang out" or whatever euphemism you want to use. Just go out with girls and "hang out". I think that's what they do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissJoness Posted March 27, 2013 Author Share Posted March 27, 2013 Only if you accept it. Nothing says you have to be in an unwanted relationship just to be able to "hang out" or whatever euphemism you want to use. Just go out with girls and "hang out". I think that's what they do. I don't want to hang out with girls. I want a GUY to take me out on a date, but due to my skin tone and race, I've been involuntarily relegated to this bootycall status. If I were lightskinned or racially mixed, I wouldn't have this problem Link to post Share on other sites
hppr Posted March 27, 2013 Share Posted March 27, 2013 I don't want to hang out with girls. I want a GUY to take me out on a date, but due to my skin tone and race, I've been involuntarily relegated to this bootycall status. If I were lightskinned or racially mixed, I wouldn't have this problem Those guys "bootycall" every girl they can, black, white, asian, if they can get away with it they'll do it. Like most single girls you are going for guys who aren't relationship material that's all. You'll figure it out soon enough. Link to post Share on other sites
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