where to start Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 when people say they have reconciled does that mean that they have worked through everything, forgiven their partner for their affair, and everything is back to normal? or, does it mean that they have made the choice to try and work things out?
LFH Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 when people say they have reconciled does that mean that they have worked through everything, forgiven their partner for their affair, and everything is back to normal? or, does it mean that they have made the choice to try and work things out? You'd have to ask them. There are a number of people that are successfully reconciled that post over on the infidelity board. I think everyone determines when they consider themselves "reconciled" differently. There are also a lot of people who think they are reconciled who's spouse just got "better" with their phone records. 1
Author where to start Posted March 27, 2013 Author Posted March 27, 2013 my apologies. i thought that's where i posted my question. i appreciate your response as well.
LFH Posted March 27, 2013 Posted March 27, 2013 my apologies. i thought that's where i posted my question. i appreciate your response as well. No worries, you're welcome to post here as well, I just think you'll get better answers from those with the real life experience in it.
whichwayisup Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 when people say they have reconciled does that mean that they have worked through everything, forgiven their partner for their affair, and everything is back to normal? or, does it mean that they have made the choice to try and work things out? Things may not be back to *normal* once an A affects a marriage it'll never be normal again. Different yes, better, hopefully, but not normal. Anyway, it does mean a couple has decided to give their marriage another shot and do their best to make it work - Together.
Catplates Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 xMM told me that after Dday, nothing was ever the same again and that was after two years. That's the only experience I have with reconciliation.
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