My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me

[TeRRaVen52]

Well we have liked eachother for around 3 months and started going out 2 months into liking eacother. The first 2 weeks of our relationship was awesome, we saw eacother alot we showed our likings for eachother and just loved spending time with eachother... well she got a job and became kinda busy but i still saw her but not as much and she still liked me but didnt seem as excited as before. Then she didnt even have time to talk to me on the phone really...i knew soemthing was wrong but she never told anybody she didnt like me or anything cuz i asked her friends.... the ocnversations online, on the phone, and in person were all boring unlike before... ive been wanting to ask her whats going on between us so yesterday online i said "i need to talk about us and stuff" and she said "yessss go ahead"...she sounded eager to get something out as well....then i said "well i really like u but in the last week or two it just seems like you dont like me anymore and that you dont wanna be around me and that you dont have any interest in me" and she said " well i love you and i think your the nicest kid but I have been so busy with work and everything and i never get to see u and i felt bad and i have this feeling inside of me that makes me want to be single and i hate it and i wish i could get rid of it" so we broke up and then i said "do you promise we'll be friends" bc i didnt wanna lose her as a gf and a friend and i didnt want things to be weird and she said "yes of course we were good friends before we ever went out" which is true....and all of a sudden after we broke up....she started being the colorful cheerful girl that i first started liking...we talked for a long time about stuff and she seemed really enthused and wanted to talk to me unlike before where our convos were boring and dull... now i still have storng feelings for this girl and im reallllly hoping she maybe realizes what shes missing and whats to get back with me but i dont really see that happening....i thought to myself i guess we could be friends but if i see her with another guy it would kill me.... now first off i wanna know if theres any chance this girl still has feelings for me and maybe we have a slight chance of getting back together or maybe i should just forget about my feelings for her and just be friends....and i dont understand what she means by the feeling of wanting to be single...its weird bc shes not a party girl...she doesnt drink smoke or hook up with guys alot so its not like she was missing out on that....so im not sure what she meant by that....i dunno maybe someone can try to tell me wut to do next and explain this...thanks

[avsguy01]

Im curious......have you two had sex yet or any sexual feelings between each other?

[Papillon]

The thing about working is that it makes you require a lot of alone time.... If I were you I'd be the best friend ever and just accept and understand everything, and be there for her.

 

Don't be an ass and demand your "rights". That's the quickest way to chase her away permanently.