cece_2_fine Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 My bestfriend in the whole wide world ,my sister, my soulmate, my dawg 4 life, name is Gaili. We've been friends for three years now and we have a very strong friendship. We've had our issues (but what friends dont) and we've used our issues to build a strong friendship because we learn from each and everyone of them and we keep going and dont look back. N e ways when it comes to guys we both know where and where not to cross the line. We already know that we both gotta know how far to go with one anothers "man". Basically saying that we dont try to mess around with each others boyfriend whether it be a recent boyfriend or a long time ex. It probably sounds crazy but we keep it real. Okay so here's the problem I used to like this boy but the feelings weren't mutual so it didn't work out and she liked him and she ask me if it was okay if she could try to talk to him herself and I said no because I still had feelings for him even though he didn't like me. I hadn't gotten over him yet. She liked a boy but the feelings weren't mutual so it didn't work out and he likes me and at first I didn't really like him like that but now I do. I asked her if it was okay if I could talk to him and she said yes. But her friend says that I'm wrong for talking to him even if she did say yes. They were never together but neither was me and the gut I liked she just liked him alot and I can't tell if she's just trying to be cool and still has feelings for him or if it really is okay. What do you think? Am I Wrong or Should I Go For it. Link to post Share on other sites
Kizzyfur Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 If you wouldn't allow her to be with a guy you were never with just because YOU liked HIM, then no, I don't think you should see a guy SHE likes. It wouldn't be fair to your friend. You weren't fair to her to say she couldn't see him, now you're not being fair to her again. Link to post Share on other sites
Honesty Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 Originally posted by cece_2_fine N e ways when it comes to guys we both know where and where not to cross the line. We already know that we both gotta know how far to go with one anothers "man". Basically saying that we dont try to mess around with each others boyfriend whether it be a recent boyfriend or a long time ex. It probably sounds crazy but we keep it real. Obviously it's not both of you who know how far to go! When she asked you if she could talk to the guy that you liked you said no because in some ways it bother you. Don't you think she will feel the same way? Maybe she did not say it because she wants to see you happy and if you like this guy she will not stand in the way, even if it means putting her own feelings on the line. Just put yourself in her position. You did not like the idea of her talking with a guy you liked so I'm pretty sure that deep in her heart she does not want you to. Don't be selfish. Do to others what you want them to do to you! A genuine friend should come before any man because when that guy breaks your heart she will be the one who will still be there! Link to post Share on other sites
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