Author somedude81 Posted April 1, 2013 Author Share Posted April 1, 2013 ??? And lots of guys are attracted to women for attributes they didn't do anything to achieve.... big boobs, round butt, long hair, blonde hair, small waist, tall or short... Everyone is attracted to something. A girl who is attracted to height can't change what "lights her panties on fire", any more than you can change what lights YOU on fire. Actually, round butt, long hair, small waist even blonde hair, are all things the woman has control over. Height barely matters to most men. The only one I agree with is big boobs. Yes women with big boobs easily turn me on. But as I said countless times, I don't think less of women with small breasts and I would never turn down a girl because she was small. The most recent girl I asked out was probably a B cup. If even that big because I can't really judge the smaller sizes. All I know was that she wasn't as big as I preferred, and it didn't bug me at all. I was still looking forward to getting my hands on them. Good job you blonde mustache wearing dude. Ah yes, I've stumbled across mention of him on the internet years ago. And that one movie they made about him. Which had parts that were pukey disgusting. Yeah, I know the whole thing was sleezy. Yes I took a workshop and read all kinds of PUA material, but I never used any of it. I just couldn't find anything that matched with what I wanted to do. Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Your flaws are. The insecurities about your flaws are not however. Somedude is paralyzed by them, otherwise he wouldn't be making threads like this and being depressed about not having a GF. Well it's just, he's only 5'6", it's not like he's the shortest man alive. Surely he has seen short men with girlfriends or wives before... Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted April 1, 2013 Author Share Posted April 1, 2013 BTW, I took that workshop at least seven years ago. Link to post Share on other sites
AlexDP Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Well it's just, he's only 5'6", it's not like he's the shortest man alive. Surely he has seen short men with girlfriends or wives before... No. He's 5'6". He's the shortest man alive. No one on the planet has it tougher than him. Except Grumpy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AlexDP Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 BTW, I took that workshop at least seven years ago. Could you, for five seconds, be a man and suck it up? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 No. He's 5'6". He's the shortest man alive. No one on the planet has it tougher than him. Except Grumpy. I don't know, Cousin It might have a hard time too. Link to post Share on other sites
debber01 Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 A women with tons of attractive options will not take the short guy a women with limited will be happy to be with you I respectfully disagree. I currently have a lot of 'irons in the fire' so to speak, but guess who I'm going out with Friday night? A dude that's 5'-8". Like a lot of women, even though I am short, the taller, beefier 6'-0" and above guys really light my fire. But this shorter guy is a bit of a firecracker. He exudes confidence without being arrogant. He's bold without being overwhelming. He isn't normally anyone I'd ever date, but his being comfortable in his own skin is, quite frankly, attractive. We shall see! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 An insecurity is a flaw and as much as you work on them they never go away. It is like a virus. You build up an immunity but the virus is always present. When your immune system becomes compromised the virus or insecurity rears its ugly head to reek havoc. I disagree with that. You get rid of it. I've worked hard to get rid of mine. I still have my flaws, except that I accept that I have them. I'm not insecure about them. Nonetheless, if you are correct then what is your solution to how Somedude deals with this problem. I'm curious.... Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Yes. It's an expression that I despise, but lately it seems to be the only appropriate, ultimate response to a plethora of threads around this place. MAN UP 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Why not date a plain jane? A short guy is not gonna get his pick of the litter im sorry your'e gonna have to get an average looking women if you want to find somebody A women with tons of attractive options will not take the short guy a women with limited will be happy to be with you False. And "pick of the litter?" Come on. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Actually, round butt, long hair, small waist even blonde hair, are all things the woman has control over.do. Women have control over weight, but little to no control over body shape and fat distribution. Also, not all women can grow decent looking long hair. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lonely Ronin Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Yes. It's an expression that I despise, but lately it seems to be the only appropriate, ultimate response to a plethora of threads around this place. MAN UP It's so sad that many guys on LS have no idea what that even means... Link to post Share on other sites
HopelessRomantic76 Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 False. And "pick of the litter?" Come on. My point is a women with options and all things being equal will take the tall man Link to post Share on other sites
AlexDP Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Yes. It's an expression that I despise, but lately it seems to be the only appropriate, ultimate response to a plethora of threads around this place. MAN UP Photographs that will shock the world: Vulture Because this is what's not fair. Not being a couple of inches smaller than you'd like to be. Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 It's so sad that many guys on LS have no idea what that even means... Just to be clear, I think I'm more manly than probably half the women on LS. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 My point is a women with options and all things being equal will take the tall man I didn't Then again, while I've met taller, I've never met an equal to my man. He's sort of awesome. Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Yeah, I know the whole thing was sleezy. Yes I took a workshop and read all kinds of PUA material, but I never used any of it. I just couldn't find anything that matched with what I wanted to do. Well for his sake, let's just hope they really do sell beer in hell. Link to post Share on other sites
Lonely Ronin Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Just to be clear, I think I'm more manly than probably half the women on LS. lol, Your new goal is to then be more manly than all of them. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 My point is a women with options and all things being equal will take the tall man Maybe you should only speak for yourself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Yes. It's an expression that I despise, but lately it seems to be the only appropriate, ultimate response to a plethora of threads around this place. MAN UP It's so sad that many guys on LS have no idea what that even means... I know what it means. It means get taller. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 I didn't He's sort of awesome. Rather than "short" of awesome. Har, har! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Women have control over weight, but little to no control over body shape and fat distribution. Also, not all women can grow decent looking long hair. Very true. Even when quite skinny, I am not an hourglass. My waist never looks slender. I have a very "straight" body shape. We are who we are. Rather than lamenting that we aren't the person the majority wants, why not focus on those who DO find us attractive? Maybe 90% of women care about height. (I am pulling that % out of my butt). So focus on the 10% who don't. It does NO GOOD to spend your energy being angry at the 90% and wanting to change the way things are. And it is NOT self-serving to focus on something you can't change anyway. Being angry about it is only going to continue to scare girls off. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Though I know it isn't a rational fear, I have always imagined large women to have large vaginas. I can see why this would scare SD. Let's be honest here folks, would you date a person when you know that, if things turn out badly, you might forever disappear in one of her cavities? Would you? This reminds me of a piece of graffiti I once saw in a women's restroom... "Fat girls have tight holes Cause all the fat hangs down low" Just one of those things that will never leave my brain that I wish would. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HopelessRomantic76 Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 Maybe you should only speak for yourself. May i ask what you look like? If you could have landed a tall hottie im sure you would have Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted April 1, 2013 Share Posted April 1, 2013 May i ask what you look like? If you could have landed a tall hottie im sure you would have That is a married woman you are referring to. Link to post Share on other sites
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