Got this new email today - Don't know if I can resist her and want to take her back!

[Salvatore85]

After her crying and begging and telling me that she was a fool to push me away I took her back. All for a whopping 2 months or so until she said that "there is just to much pain and we're not the same". She moved to Nashville today and I am a broken, broken man.

 

I should of let her go when I started this thread but with all her crying, begging, pleading, I took her back and followed my heart when I should of followed my head.

 

I'm devastated right now. I'm alone, scared, and miss my best friend. I will get past this but not soon enough.

 

Dude dont punish yourself for taking a chance. Who knows how these reconciliations will go if you don't try? And trust me its worth it because its better than wondering "what if?" for the rest of your life. It's going to hurt and its not going to go away for awhile. I'm going on 7 months after our second break up and some days are still extremely hard but ill make it and so will you. You seem like a great guy, I promise you'll land on your feet boss.

[Jangles524]

OP was gifted what ALL of us dumpee's want. To know they regret their decisions. To know they want us back. To know they realize they made the biggest mistake of their life.

 

I imagine though, that it's a most bitter victory.

[Soat]

I guess once something breaks its unlikely to be fuxed

[northdevon]

So I'm confused, overall you were together 3 times? I don't blame you for trying dude, I think if you have any feeling inside that it could work you should give it a shot. If me and my ex got back together we would also be on the 3rd time but I'm 4 days into NC heard nothing, so don't expect it but I would like her to contact me, as your thread shows how to handle the situation. You'll get there and find someone better, her not being around may make it easier too, her moving might be a fresh start for you.

 

Long road, all here to travel it together.

[Lansing]

I'm devastated right now. I'm alone, scared, and miss my best friend. I will get past this but not soon enough.

 

Wow, I thought I came across this thread while I was doing a search and it was an old thread but surprised to see the update from not long ago...

 

I think what you should take out of this is knowing 100% that she was not the right person for you. You were right to say before that you blocked her and deleted her number.. it is a mistake that you will learn from going forward.

 

Hopefully your job is going well and you can focus energy on that and other parts of your life. I know what it is like to go through a breakup so I feel for you. Just focus on your health/career for now. Making work out more/take up new hobbies/etc.