thisgirlokc Posted April 2, 2013 Share Posted April 2, 2013 My ex husband and I have been divorced for 3 years. During that time we have not had a typical divorced relationship. Yes, we have slept together at times during the divorce. It was the best part of our relationship. We have dated other people but not seriously and nothing long term. We admit to each other how jealous we get when one of us is seeing someone else. Lately he has been very flirty and texts me random stuff all the time like youtube videos. I usually wait a while to respond to his texts and when I do, he will text back immediately. I am trying to keep my guard up and not go down this path again because I dont want to get hurt. He says he cant understand why the rest of our relationship couldnt be as intimate and loving and mind blowing as our sex life always has been and still continues to be. Why does he act like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted April 2, 2013 Share Posted April 2, 2013 You've moved from wife to FWB. I'll leave it to you to determine if it's a promotion or demotion... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
GuyInLimbo Posted April 2, 2013 Share Posted April 2, 2013 Are either one of you in therapy? Sounds like a recipe for a mess to me. Link to post Share on other sites
jennaflorrie Posted April 3, 2013 Share Posted April 3, 2013 Sounds like you still have feelings for each other. Why did you divorce? If you love him enough to sleep with him....then you shouldnt have divorced him. Get married again and accept that you are meant to be together or.....keep it as Friends. You are messing up your head, by being divorced but sleeping with him. The sex is keeping you two together...emotionaly, physiclaly. Let it go or be together. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted April 3, 2013 Share Posted April 3, 2013 It sounds to me as if you are the absolutely perfectly matched couple. Just not in a marriage - ! As long as it works like this, enjoy. At one time or another, something may come up which will make the two of you drift apart again..... Hell, why not just enjoy yourselves and live life as you want? Stuck on one another, but with no definitive ties. Maybe that's the bond. Any kids.....? Link to post Share on other sites
Jethro Posted April 4, 2013 Share Posted April 4, 2013 As a divorced man... I would like to shake you exes hand. He has achieved the ultimate dumping- divorced the woman but still gets to bang her. Perfect! Kudos! Link to post Share on other sites
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