43 days no contact, deactivated FB, I'm off the map

[Jord11]

43 days I still feel rough, still miss her like crazy but nothing else I can do, I wish she felt the way I feel right now but she probably doesn't, sucks when you give someone you're all and all the promises you've made, how could someone be so heartless

[chaychay]

I t sucks I know it does. But theres nothing you can do to change things.

You just need to hang in there.

 

If you still have feelings for her just think about how much shes hurting you. Youd never do that to her right? Do you want her back? I dont really know cause you havent mentioned it. But if you don't want her. Theres nothing else you can do. Let time heal it. I know its hard.

[NoLeafClover]

43 days I still feel rough, still miss her like crazy but nothing else I can do, I wish she felt the way I feel right now but she probably doesn't, sucks when you give someone you're all and all the promises you've made, how could someone be so heartless

Im at 5 months NC as of today . Keep strong my friends, in no time it's not going to faze you anymore ...I promise you. I used to feel the same way.

[iouaname]

Good job on making it to 43 days, that's definitely an accomplishment! There are many people who only make it that far once their ex has forced no contact on them.

 

I'm at Day 49 myself and as the two-month mark approaches, I find myself missing him more and more, but I also find myself able to control myself and my emotions much more, which is huge.

 

Just focus on making it one day at a time, and be proud of yourself every day that you do make it!

[Jon Lock]

I haven't read your story or come across it but I will say one word: perseverance.

 

The early stages are the hardest; it's quite a tough period of adjustment.

 

Deactivating Facebook? A good move I think. It's good to get a break from that environment and allow yourself time to focus - on yourself. And so you are off the map: you've disappeared. Good!