A scenerio for the women that are not into revealing pasts

[Eggplant]

I let it be known up front that I am only interested in strictly straight men. Nothing against bi-sexuality, just my own dating preference. So if I found that out, he would be a liar, which is a clear-cut deal breaker, without my having to think too hard.

[joystickd]

How would you feel if he gave as a reason for not telling is that he didn't want to be judged for it or you give him a hard time for it?

[joystickd]

 

The issue with me primarily is: most guys who want a "good girl" weren't do good themselves and its ludicrous to think you deserve in another what you aren't. Just like the morbidly obese girl looks like a whiny freak for demanding a muscle bound boyfriend, the pig guy who wants a virginal girlfriend is delusional.

The thing is it's not that they want a good girl. Most guys want a loyal woman and usually women with a large number of partners kind of makes one wonder is she loyal. Then there is a factor of women wanting kids and the question of paternity. I mean if a woman doesn't want kids then by all means sex it with anyone. The issue is if she has slept with a number of men at anytime and gets pregnant then there are issues. We live in a time of DNA but there are still issues. There are some women that portray loyalty and have been cheating and pass off the child as her BF or husband's child. Imagine what a man would feel to know a child is not his after investing his time and bonding with someone that was never his. We live in a time of protection but that is not 100% effective.