Simon Phoenix Posted April 5, 2013 Share Posted April 5, 2013 well the thing is that i did the begging/pleading/reasoning bit..... i did this cuz i really did love her. i felt that this pushed her away farther so i went no contact cuz i felt there was nothing more i cud do. i dont want to fully explain the whole story and go thru it all again.... but i went nc cuz she wanted space and time cuz shes confused and needs to figure things out.... its been almost 30 days of no contact since i last talked to her, do you think i shud shoot her a text to ask her how she is? or shud i jus wate for her to contact me when shes ready? a couple days ago, my friend told me that she texted him asking if i was okay so I know that im still on her mind. the thing is that this cud mean that shes just curious or shes really just wondering if im ok...but at least this lets me know that shes thinkin about me. what does everyone think? just let it burn and continue no contact or check in? If she doesn't answer, would it piss you off? Would it make you sad? If she answers coldly, would it piss you off or make you feel bad? If the answer is yes, then don't. If the answer is no, wait a couple weeks and make sure the answer still remains no before you try anything. Link to post Share on other sites
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