OCCDAVE Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Dunno why but I've had alot of emotions last two weeks after my ex of 2 weeks ended it.I called her trying to reach other maybe try and making a friendship no answer .The icing on the cake I sent a text Hey Mandy how are you doing Sigh maybe 2 weeks wasnt long enough now I'm back day 1 .I really did try reaching out I want her in my life even if its a friend sigh Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 So what happened...? No response?? TFOY 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 6, 2013 Author Share Posted April 6, 2013 Meant ex of 2 months lol Nope no reply at all .Not gonna lie After I started to tear up and feel embaressed .I didn't wanna send a long text sounding dramatic or anything cause the response would have been no different .SighI know we were not together to long just tough seein someone just act cold toward you hell for all I know she's prolly laughing at the text/call. Sigh Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Meant ex of 2 months lol Nope no reply at all .Not gonna lie After I started to tear up and feel embaressed .I didn't wanna send a long text sounding dramatic or anything cause the response would have been no different .SighI know we were not together to long just tough seein someone just act cold toward you hell for all I know she's prolly laughing at the text/call. Sigh Sorry, bro... Just think of it this way...There is only two ways that could go... 1) NO response...That hurts more than anything.. 2) You get some half assed, one word "fine" or "good" response. Almost as bad as none at all. Face the facts, if she wanted you to contact her she would have probably contacted you herself. Ive been where you are and while I am not out of the woods, I am 90% there. The sad part, and I am almost afraid to tell you this, is that if you stay NC it will get WAY worse before it gets better. You will be climbing the walls, but you gotta hang on. But if you break it, you start the cycle right from the beginning again. Oh what fun, eh? Just stay busy, lean on your buddies, workout, whatever...Just dont contact... Hang in there TFOY 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Limbo21 Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Just curious but why do you sign your posts? Your user name is right next to your post? Good advice btw 1 Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 (edited) Dunno why but I've had alot of emotions last two weeks after my ex of 2 weeks ended it.I called her trying to reach other maybe try and making a friendship no answer .The icing on the cake I sent a text Hey Mandy how are you doing Sigh maybe 2 weeks wasnt long enough now I'm back day 1 .I really did try reaching out I want her in my life even if its a friend sigh Dude this is great! No begging and pleading in non exchange. Text wasnt too pitiful. And on top of that a lack of reponse just drives the stake even further in! woohooo. You now know IT IS OVER! She wants absolutly NOTHING to do with you! Anyway. Sorry. You know what to do man. This isnt your 1st BU. No choice now. Pure NC. And stop deluding yourself about this friendship idea. You know better. Time to put on your big boy pants. Rock on! Cav Edited April 6, 2013 by cavalier99 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Damaged23 Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Well, you messed up, now it's time to face the consequences. Go back to NC and please don't break it again, you know nothing good comes out of it 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Compromize Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 I think it takes about a week or so to "get over" the knife in the guts of breaking NC. Lesson learned the hard way. Just go back to NC bro and you will get there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 7, 2013 Author Share Posted April 7, 2013 Tbh maybe I was trying to delude myself with a friendship .I stayed up all night crying .I think anger is kicking in more though fact u have no problem acting like I never excisted really hurts me .I tried that night and with the exception of twice I've maintain nc for few weeks .Its def gonna be awhile befôre I get back into the mix I'm back to just focusing on me.Looking back I really don't think she ever loved me and next time ill be iffy about even saying those words sigh Link to post Share on other sites
geegirl Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 I bet you don't cry yourself to sleep when your friends don't respond to you in time. You're a long time poster on LS. You've read more than enough threads to know that 2 weeks is not even a drop in the bucket to help you detach and be indifferent enough to actually consider a friendship. Friendship is just a dumpee's way of desperately trying to cling on. A lot of emotions over the last two weeks does not justify seeking comfort from them by reaching out to the source of what causing those painful emotions. She can't comfort you nor can she provide you with anything that can make you alleviate your pain or propel you past your grief. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 8, 2013 Author Share Posted April 8, 2013 I agree I wouldn't say I am fully detached but I figured since she has had np dropping me that by now she be willing to talk.True I've been here some time and during I've gone from failed rs,divorce and back to bad rs .Sometimes I feel despite getting older i still can't figure out this rs game .Tbh I still càre about her and your right friendship is just a way I could lessen the blow even though that does no good .thanks again everyone who replied Link to post Share on other sites
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