Feels like I am expecting the worse....

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So I have known this woman for awhile through her line of work.Its the only time I have seen her and talked to her while she i work. Turns out she got married with someone I work with but do not "work" together. We just happened to be employed for the same company. Since know I have talked to him in passing. But yet I still know her much better than him.Well time has passed by and I really had a chance to visit with her until about a month ago I bumped into her at the store while she was leaving and she told me that she had divorced the guy. Again I didn't know this and her ex never tell me since we really dont have a reason to communicate to each other. But I have had unusual encounters that I thought were weird looks from him. So recently we were talking to each other and I happen to throw out the idea we should go to a bball game to see what she would say. She said she would be down and to let her know. Well I knew she was going out of town for awhile and before she left we texted each other and wished each other a god long holiday weekend. I didnt keep a long conversation via text or anything jut playing it cool. So a whole week goes by we haven't communicated with each other and i really didnt want to bother her with a text while she was with family and I had family in town as well. Then one day during my lunch time I get a text from her!! I was pretty stoked. She was asking about who she could talk to with someone in HR from the company I work for about insurance questions and she needed to get something resolved. She told me she didnt want to contact her ex at all. I told her I would hep her get the info but I was away from my office so it would be a minute. We text back and forth for a bit about how our long break was and so forth. As I was with a friend (girl) it was pointed out to me that this woman I like could of gotten the info(phone # of insurance co.) she needed off the internet. Even in her line of work she could of had access to the info. My friend at the time told me to man up ask her out. I told her I wanted to but I felt like the timing wasnt right. So a few minutes later the woman texted me that she found her old insurance card and didnt need me to get the info for her. So after thinking about for a few more hours I decided to ask her to dinner. needless to say I was a nervous wreck! she actually didnt respond for a bit. When she did she was down to go. I offered to meet her somewhere casual. and in all honesty I was waiting for for the dreaded "I cant make it" text. When we met for dinner the date went AWESOME! I got the hello hug and all!! I sat across from her, we had laughs, I even threw the idea out we should hang out again! She agreed! It was almost a 2 hour dinner of nothing but getting to know each other and god laughs. We have a lot in common. She did bring up her ex a couple times but I stayed clear from it. Basically doesnt want to talk or see him. We left the evening with a pleasant good bye...no hug..it was pouring rain outside and I didnt dare to go in for a kiss. I finally called her 2 days later in the evening saying hello and thanked her a wonderful evening and to call or even text me when she could. Didnt hear back until the next day in the afternoon. She texted me she got my message, she was out with a friend, she was hoping I was having a good day and to have a great weekend! (is this the dont call/text during the weekend). I replied back that I was traveling and it was nice to hear from her.

I think I am being over cautious with this person and over analyzing all this. Actually I think I am actually preparing myself for the worse and nothing has happened. I really enjoyed her company and really want to get to know her more. But I am also being sensitive to the fact that she is recently divorced (Aug. 2012) for only being married for less than a year. I do not want to pressure her into anything or basically screw it up. I am sure she still is hurt and angry. but she did mention that she is going out and doing things with friends. Heck she could be seeing someone else for that matter. But I think she would of told me. Do I text her this weekend? If so what do I say? I want to ask her out for next week but when is the time right? I just dont know what to do...I really like this woman!