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My girlfriend does not know that I know

poptartkev

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GorillaTheater

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Well done, Pop.

 

If I have any criticism, it's that you used three paragraphs where three sentences would have done the job.

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I thought I would update you guys in case anyone was curious. I sent her the email explaining I knew and I couldn't be with a dishonest person blah blah about three paragraphs long. Pretty short and sweet - let her know I knew, how it made me feel, that she lied to my face and that I wouldn't stand for any of it and I deserve better. This maybe cold but I threw in a "I hope he was worth it" at the end to give a little sting to it.

 

She called me right after reading it and apologized. I told her I was glad that she was sorry but that wasn't enough for me. I told her I am better than the way she treats me and won't stand for anyone treating me that way and then ended the conversation. I have already gotten 4 texts from her apologizing and that she is so so so so sorry....

 

I am going no contact and starting the healing. I really care about this girl but I never want to feel like this ever again. Here's is to the long road to recovery. Thank you guys for all the advice. I just need to not break my no contact rule. I think I am going to defriend her on facebook so that I don't look at it and torture myself. It's all about me now and not us.

 

Personally I wouldn't have given her a satisfaction of talking to me but it was still very well done.

 

You definitively need to defriend her on FB and don't allow her to drag you into any kind of contact. I know it is hard to do but just cut her off completely. Soon you will find another girl who will treat you better than this skank.

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CarrieT

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Bravo, Pop.

 

Delete the FB, go No Contact, and take yourself on a little vacation of your own...

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AbeNormal

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Well done, Pop.

 

If I have any criticism, it's that you used three paragraphs where three sentences would have done the job.

 

Not arguing with you mate. Whether it was one, two or three (or yet many more) sentences.

 

But, in my view, the last one should simply be "Have a nice life." End.

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I thought I would update you guys in case anyone was curious. I sent her the email explaining I knew and I couldn't be with a dishonest person blah blah about three paragraphs long. Pretty short and sweet - let her know I knew, how it made me feel, that she lied to my face and that I wouldn't stand for any of it and I deserve better. This maybe cold but I threw in a "I hope he was worth it" at the end to give a little sting to it.

 

She called me right after reading it and apologized. I told her I was glad that she was sorry but that wasn't enough for me. I told her I am better than the way she treats me and won't stand for anyone treating me that way and then ended the conversation. I have already gotten 4 texts from her apologizing and that she is so so so so sorry....

 

I am going no contact and starting the healing. I really care about this girl but I never want to feel like this ever again. Here's is to the long road to recovery. Thank you guys for all the advice. I just need to not break my no contact rule. I think I am going to defriend her on facebook so that I don't look at it and torture myself. It's all about me now and not us.

 

 

I have no doubt she is indeed. She is "so so so so sorry" she GOT CAUGHT cheating.

 

Seriously, from the way she was bragging about what happened to her roommate (those texts going on about his sexy accent) do you really think she regretted it right after it happened?

 

Well-played ptkev.

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I thought I would update you guys in case anyone was curious. I sent her the email explaining I knew and I couldn't be with a dishonest person blah blah about three paragraphs long. Pretty short and sweet - let her know I knew, how it made me feel, that she lied to my face and that I wouldn't stand for any of it and I deserve better. This maybe cold but I threw in a "I hope he was worth it" at the end to give a little sting to it.

 

She called me right after reading it and apologized. I told her I was glad that she was sorry but that wasn't enough for me. I told her I am better than the way she treats me and won't stand for anyone treating me that way and then ended the conversation. I have already gotten 4 texts from her apologizing and that she is so so so so sorry....

 

I am going no contact and starting the healing. I really care about this girl but I never want to feel like this ever again. Here's is to the long road to recovery. Thank you guys for all the advice. I just need to not break my no contact rule. I think I am going to defriend her on facebook so that I don't look at it and torture myself. It's all about me now and not us.

 

Bad a$$!!!! Keep at it!

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I thought I would update you guys in case anyone was curious. I sent her the email explaining I knew and I couldn't be with a dishonest person blah blah about three paragraphs long. Pretty short and sweet - let her know I knew, how it made me feel, that she lied to my face and that I wouldn't stand for any of it and I deserve better. This maybe cold but I threw in a "I hope he was worth it" at the end to give a little sting to it.

 

She called me right after reading it and apologized. I told her I was glad that she was sorry but that wasn't enough for me. I told her I am better than the way she treats me and won't stand for anyone treating me that way and then ended the conversation. I have already gotten 4 texts from her apologizing and that she is so so so so sorry....

 

I am going no contact and starting the healing. I really care about this girl but I never want to feel like this ever again. Here's is to the long road to recovery. Thank you guys for all the advice. I just need to not break my no contact rule. I think I am going to defriend her on facebook so that I don't look at it and torture myself. It's all about me now and not us.

SOLID. :cool:

 

You are the Man.

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I agree. She's just sorry she got caught. You saw that text AFTER the fact and it certainly didn't begin with, "OMG, I just made the biggest mistake of my life! I'm so ashamed."

 

She was bragging about it. That's certainly not the actions or response from a truely remorseful person.

 

She's going to try and contact you again. And call....and email....and text. Ignore it.

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Darren Steez

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You just flipped the script on her. Here you were, the guy she could cheat on, not give a second thought when perving on other guys and having sex with them, and there is she..dumped. No doubt she's sorry, but only for herself. Good luck with your journey and stay strong. No doubt when she comes back into town she'll suddenly be strongly drawn to you..unfortunately it has nothing to do with you..only ego. Make sure she stays dumped..even better go meet a hottie and move on :)

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CarrieT

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Trying to stay strong.

 

We are very proud of you.

 

Many are given sound advice on how to deal with cheaters and often there is the whine of, "but I love them so...."

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