aliniss Posted April 8, 2013 Share Posted April 8, 2013 Hello, There is this married man that I think he developed a crush on me. We don't really talk since I am afraid of encouraging him but I noticed he is very aware of my schedule at work ( we work in the same workplace but different departments) sometimes in our short conversations he shows he cares how I am, he comes to my department quite often with different excuses, he even said seeing me makes his day special. I don't really understand what he really wants also I am afraid that maybe it's only in my mind the fact he wants more. I don't want to stop acting normal but I feel that with everyday that I am being polite he is getting more comfortable coming by and chatting. Even some colleagues noticed how he comes only when I am around and he only makes small talk with me. I am feeling weird since I don't know how to behave any more..Is it just me or is he looking for more than a friendship? Link to post Share on other sites
ForeverHopeful1 Posted April 8, 2013 Share Posted April 8, 2013 Well, I hope he isnt looking for more than friendship. If he is and he ever feels the need to tell you about it, you need to tell him to keep it in his pants and remind him of his wife. You should be able to be yourself and still act normally. If he does anything or continues, makes you feel uncomfortable, etc, then you can be assertive with him and let him know he is being inappropriate. You dont even have to be rude about it. Just assertive. If he is just being nice, then he is just being nice. Sometimes, there are just nice people in the world. Sometimes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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