Emilia Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 He generalizes. Thats my problem with him. I know many men that dont think the way he does. I think he looks down on women yes for whatever his reasons are. Men don't fare much better either, maybe it's general misanthropy *shrug* 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 OMG THIS IS THE WORST LIFE EVA! Let me post a 50 page thread on my poop life. I'm sorry your life is the worst life ever. If you post what's wrong, I'm sure you'll get a lot of advice. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 Most of his posts hate on women. If you actually read his posts, he is even harsher on us 2 Link to post Share on other sites
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I work in a people profession as well and I still find trends. Trends does not mean 80-100% of men act the same way. Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 He generalizes. Thats my problem with him. I know many men that dont think the way he does. People on this site assume everyone else thinks the way they do. Maybe its because they dont work in a people profession like I do. When I was younger I was prone to generalizing but after meeting thousands of people and getting to know their personal lives, I have now figured out generalizing is not accurate. Ironically, I know quite a few men that get attached to almost all the women they screw. Go figure. You may not like generalizations. However they are most with reason. They don't exist from imagination. I am not saying they are true but he has the mindset of some guys and it is understandable. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 If you actually read his posts, he is even harsher on us Yeah, I've come to the conclusion it's general misanthropy Link to post Share on other sites
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 You may not like generalizations. However they are most with reason. They don't exist from imagination. I am not saying they are true but he has the mindset of some guys and it is understandable. I pity any kind, nice woman that dates him, if his personality on this site is what he is like in real life. Sorry, but hes a misogynist. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I pity any kind, nice woman that dates him, if his personality on this site is what he is like in real life. Sorry, but hes a misogynist. I am not disagreeing 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TheBigQuestion Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 There are plenty of women who don't form emotional bonds after sex, probably more than most are willing to publicly admit. On LS, statements that women generally get emotionally attached after sex are usually made in the context of shaming men who are interested in NSA sex or FWB relationships, flatly ignoring the sexual preferences of a substantial amount of women. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 Still most of the people most of the time will act a certain way to a certain stimulus. That's why statistics work and studies are beneficial. Really? I have a masters degree involving research and very few studies show trends where 80-100% of men act a certain way. At least ones that have undergone scientific standards. Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 Really? I have a masters degree involving research and very few studies show trends where 80-100% of men act a certain way. At least ones that have undergone scientific standards. Don't try and apply logic. A lot of people here will throw out random numbers just to try and back up whatever bull**** they say. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 This thread reminds me of that one time in HS when my friend told me 'never piss of the women when they are in a group, they turn rabid'. I need to look that guy up, smart guy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I've put 'Always Looking Back' on ignore quite a while ago. I think that's a good bet for everyone 1 Link to post Share on other sites
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 Misogyny is just one work in a misanthropic encyclopedic collection. Don't focus on a volume when there is such rich diversity unless you are inadvertently admitting to your own misandry. Aren't misandrists the only ones who care about misogyny and vice versa?[/QUOTE] Id recommend you go see a counselor. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
flybonzai Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I believe that sex is always going to bond two compatible people together, and for that reason sex in a relationship is an important form of communication. You are sharing something beautiful and intimate and completely personal with another person. I might just be weird though, and this is the reason I try to save those kinds of things for serious relationships. Just my 2 cents:) Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I've put 'Always Looking Back' on ignore quite a while ago. I think that's a good bet for everyone I did it about 10 minutes ago, but mostly because the chick that is his/her avatar is so freaking ugly. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I did it about 10 minutes ago, but mostly because the chick that is his/her avatar is so freaking ugly. I know. That disturbed me more than the posts 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I believe that sex is always going to bond two compatible people together, that's probably true 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 Aren't misandrists the only ones who care about misogyny and vice versa?[/QUOTE] Id recommend you go see a counselor. I'm posting this in the 'loveshack comments' section in the Water Cooler :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 He generalizes. Thats my problem with him. I know many men that dont think the way he does. People on this site assume everyone else thinks the way they do. Maybe its because they dont work in a people profession like I do. When I was younger I was prone to generalizing but after meeting thousands of people and getting to know their personal lives, I have now figured out generalizing is not accurate. Ironically, I know quite a few men that get attached to almost all the women they screw. Go figure. I generalize because I know men well....extremely well. Do you think I just fell of a donkey in the middle of a desert and found my way towards the nearest civilized town? I mean c'mon, I've been a man my entire life and have spoken to way more men about things wholeheartedly and honestly then you'll ever come close to. And when it comes to generalizing It's "general" meaning that this is what in general is what you're going to see. But I'm sorry that In your world if squirrels like nuts then that's generalizing, because I'm sure there is a squirrel out there who hates nuts and only eats bananas...so ridiculous. People want to think it's "the way I think" because that's how most people give advice/perspective, from their personal experiences and social group. I've interacted with all kinds of men, from the big fish to the small, to married men, to single, from old to young. You think putting spots on a tiger makes him a cheetah, sorry, you can live in that fantasy world, you can believe in the facade and lies that men try so hard to create that women don't see the real core of the man...the superficial world you choose to believe in and take at face value. None of these guys are honest with you, that's the hilarious thing. You think when I talk to men in the "real world" these guys contest and disagree with me? You think i don't both relate to men and women in real life?...You know where I've gotten my information from? real life breathing men, yes folks, not my own man-made dungeon where I concoct all these ridiculous philosophies and theories...generalizing my way through life knowing nothing....you know what it "looks" that way sometimes? because these damn men are lying to you! But go ahead, shoot the messenger who simply articulates it and puts it in realistic and unfiltered way for the rest of the world to hear and understand. And of course men get attached after sex as well...why is this even an argument? You want to believe in whatever idealistic fantasies you have about men? ha go ahead...knock yourself out, I know men well enough and am confident in my knowledge not to mention have little faith in what you know about men, especially from the comments in "defense" of what I'm saying or generalizations, in fact men even support that my threads at times even though it's harsh and you STILL don't believe it... you think you know better then break it down and explain it to me from your vast sources of knowledge and unbiased opinion...because for one, you're not a man, and two I know these men would never be completely honest with you because that takes a line to cross that most men loathe, a level of truth to unfiltered and self-defeating to admit...can't you see that is apart of "the game", I'm breaking all the rules telling women how it is, however a man's biggest ally will always be her own denial to accept the truth, whether he's feeding her BS or stringing her along...sometimes they are both the same. But you know what..."some" men are like this or that, and other men are not....oh no of course not, the men you know are clearly from a different planet...I don't even know why people write books! how can they possibly "generalize" I bet nobody is buying those, well except for the poor idiots and fools not associated with the respectable and pious associates that you are blessed enough to be surrounded by. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I did it about 10 minutes ago, but mostly because the chick that is his/her avatar is so freaking ugly. *Radu puts Treasa on ignore for the same reason. I don't see his avatar as so freaking ugly, maybe not my taste but deffinitely not ugly. Link to post Share on other sites
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 I generalize because I know men well....extremely well. Do you think I just fell of a donkey in the middle of a desert and found my way towards the nearest civilized town? You know "men" well. So you have gotten to know the innermost thoughts of thousands of men? Doubtful. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 Now everyone is arguing. Perfect. I'm off for a pint Good night everyone Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 Don't you live above a former bar ? Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Share Posted April 10, 2013 *Radu puts Treasa on ignore for the same reason. I don't see his avatar as so freaking ugly, maybe not my taste but deffinitely not ugly. It's too bad you have me on ignore. You'll have to figure out on your own that my opinion is my opinion only, and to have to constantly mention it is pointless and redundant. This is why opinions about looks are ALWAYS subjective and never objective. Link to post Share on other sites
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