Author iouaname Posted April 20, 2013 Author Share Posted April 20, 2013 Um - I didn't contact him, and THANK GOD I didn't, because apparently he has been going around telling people that I won't leave him alone and am insane. Well - I don't know if he's saying I'm insane, but it's being implied I guess by the "she won't leave me alone." The mutual friends we had have basically taken his side and think it's funny to let me know that all of the group thinks I'm insane. Which is not fair because I DIDN'T SPEAK TO HIM FOR TWO ****ING MONTHS AND HE CONTACTED ME. Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted April 20, 2013 Share Posted April 20, 2013 Um - I didn't contact him, and THANK GOD I didn't, because apparently he has been going around telling people that I won't leave him alone and am insane. Well - I don't know if he's saying I'm insane, but it's being implied I guess by the "she won't leave me alone." The mutual friends we had have basically taken his side and think it's funny to let me know that all of the group thinks I'm insane. Which is not fair because I DIDN'T SPEAK TO HIM FOR TWO ****ING MONTHS AND HE CONTACTED ME. Nothing is fair. Were are you getting this info? Time to go dark. Real NC. You should not be able to get any info about him or even be associating with people who might give you info. Cut them all out. Cav Link to post Share on other sites
Author iouaname Posted April 20, 2013 Author Share Posted April 20, 2013 My ex and I both had a hobby forum that we used to post on. I had not been back there since the split (although I was there first ), where we both made a lot of mutual friends. I went back just to say hi to some of the friends who I had not spoken to in four months, and found a thread with mentions of how insane I am and how I "won't leave my ex alone." So let's recap I TALK TO MY EX - I'm insane and won't leave him alone I DON'T TALK TO MY EX - he contacts me somehow because he "is worried" and then decides that being worried is too much stress I am seriously done. Like, I can't win here no matter what I do. I'm so done. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iouaname Posted April 21, 2013 Author Share Posted April 21, 2013 Feeling a bit better. Just irritated. My ex is a nasty control freak, and he doesn't even realize it. He's such a selfish jerk, and I'm such an unstable idiot for the way that I have behaved through all of this. Link to post Share on other sites
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