stealthy Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 I'm a guy. I'm just curious, do all guys cheat/will cheat on their gfs? Not a girl on the side but the occasional ons or short term fwb with minimal contact? No emotions invested in the other person, you love your gf but do you cheat? If you havent, given the opportunity, would you? Link to post Share on other sites
Vogeltron Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Depends on lots of things. More attractive men have a bigger dating pool or whatever you want to call it. Easier to hook up with random broads. They ugly or shy dudes take what they can get and when they get it never let it ago. Afraid of being dumped etc. Then you got the guys dating chicks that are out of their league. They also make a rational decision about this and tend not to cheat because they considering themselves ahead of the game. Guys who are in a relationship with someone uglier than them are more likely to cheat. I mean there are some other things that make a difference like if you are good looking guy with and ugly and or older chick who is loaded with cash. It is all relative. Like everything in life all people both male and female do a cost & benefit analysis and make decisions accordingly. Not going to say everyone is like this. There are plenty of people who are different. But everyone should asses their own relationship often and accordingly. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 The answer to that question is an obvious NO. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
runningfar Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 No. I don't think most guys will cheat by a long shot. And whether someone will cheat has very little to do with looks and a lot to do with character and possibly maturity in the younger crowd. I have learned of unfortunate looking people cheating and know plenty of monogamous handsome men. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Negative Nancy Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Most men would given the opportunity. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Not at all. The willingness to cheat doesn't have much to do with gender. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 The majority of men cheat Show me your scientific proof of this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Vogeltron Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Most men would given the opportunity. Lots of questions about values, etc. It depends largely on how engaged both men and women are in a relationship. I can't speak for everyone. But as a male I do know if I am in a relationship with someone I truly care about and I feel as though they are as committed, honest, and open about where we are and where it is going. No way I would ever cheat on somebody I care that much about. But then again, lots of cheating is a result of a lack of communication in a relationship for whatever reason. It doesn't matter male or female if you aren't in a healthy communicative relationship with the person you are with. Chances are sooner than later it will become an issue. Also I will be honest some men aren't fit for being with a single person as well as some women. It is all relative and again that is why you have to really know the person you are with. To say Men all cheat is like saying the women they are sleeping with think they are all innocent and don't have a relationship or know they aren't married. Give me a break. Link to post Share on other sites
ErosOcean Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Women cheat more than men... they are just better at it. Personally, I've had a lot of married women and women with boyfriends proposition me. Even while their men were just around the corner... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ASG Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Women cheat more than men... they are just better at it. Personally, I've had a lot of married women and women with boyfriends proposition me. Even while their men were just around the corner... Really? Cause I've had the exact same from men. How can you say women cheat more?? Anyway, not all men cheat. Just as not all women cheat. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy fields Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Cheaters cheat. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Women are 97.8% more likely to cheat than men, it has been statistically proven. Can you site that source? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 I'm a guy. I'm just curious, do all guys cheat/will cheat on their gfs? Not a girl on the side but the occasional ons or short term fwb with minimal contact? No emotions invested in the other person, you love your gf but do you cheat? If you havent, given the opportunity, would you? Yes we can't help ourselves. Link to post Share on other sites
blockstud92 Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Depends on lots of things. More attractive men have a bigger dating pool or whatever you want to call it. Easier to hook up with random broads. They ugly or shy dudes take what they can get and when they get it never let it ago. Afraid of being dumped etc. Then you got the guys dating chicks that are out of their league. They also make a rational decision about this and tend not to cheat because they considering themselves ahead of the game. Guys who are in a relationship with someone uglier than them are more likely to cheat. I mean there are some other things that make a difference like if you are good looking guy with and ugly and or older chick who is loaded with cash. It is all relative. Like everything in life all people both male and female do a cost & benefit analysis and make decisions accordingly. Not going to say everyone is like this. There are plenty of people who are different. But everyone should asses their own relationship often and accordingly. i agree. You are always looking to upgrade as a human. If you see something better you will try and get it. If you think it is out of your league you usually settle. It is like capitalism, you try to get the most for your self. Link to post Share on other sites
Harradin Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 This thread is horribly disturbing. I'm a man and I've never cheated or even had the thoughts to cheat. I take loyalty and trust so seriously that it never comes into the equation, it's disgusting. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
nonameforme Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 (edited) i agree. You are always looking to upgrade as a human. If you see something better you will try and get it. If you think it is out of your league you usually settle. It is like capitalism, you try to get the most for your self. Wow, if men really base their stance on fidelity purely from the superficial appearance of their current partner as you claim, then this world is truly sad. Fortunately, I disagree with you. Your rather dismal outlook on faithfulness may be the case for some people, but I really think there are a lot of men (and women) who don't cheat because they have something in them called honesty and integrity. Furthermore, I can say that of the handful of couples whom I personally know whose relationships ended due to infidelity, the "other person" involved was not better looking than their significant other. The cheating happened because there was a deficit in the cheater's character, not because his/her partner wasn't good looking enough. Edited April 13, 2013 by nonameforme 4 Link to post Share on other sites
man_in_the_box Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 I like to believe I'd never do that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MercuryMorrison1 Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Nope. Not all of us do, I'm living proof of that. I have never even had an emotional affair on anyone I have (officially) been dating. I am this way because I was cheated on (multiple times) in one of my earliest relationships, and it essentially made me lose all respect for people who cheat and vow never to be one myself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
reaver Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 I have a distant male friend who is not particularly all that attractive and landed himself a woman way too kind and beautiful for him. He cheats every opportunity he gets and is a very good liar so she still doesnt know and wants to marry him. One of my closest friends has a sister who has a very handsome, tall husband who makes pretty good money. My friend's sister went through a stage where she was very mean, selfish and manipulative for about 2 years (due to some personal problems...) and he never once cheated on her though he had the chance. Cheating comes down to personal ethics and moral compass more than gender. More opportunities to cheat just makes someone's moral compass come out quicker. I know women who have cheated- not all of them were beautiful either. Some of them had awful boyfriends, some didnt and just took any attention they could get. Goes both ways. Statistics show cheating is pretty equal between genders as well. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nessaaa Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Yes we can't help ourselves. Don't even get cocky OK. You will cheat, maybe not now but when you're older you will be one of those creepy older guys hollering at younger girls. Never say never you can't tell the future. All guys cheat... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 As it appears the OP is talking about sexual relations, which is a very narrow parameter for 'cheating', IMO, no, not all guys 'cheat', nor would they 'cheat' in such a manner should an opportunity present itself. Using the wider LS definition of 'cheating', that being engaging in *any* behavior with one's sexual preference outside of the purview of one's partner/spouse and otherwise disapproved of by them if exhibited in their presence, and deceiving said partner/spouse as to the behavior, it's highly probable that most people have cheated in one form or another during their lifetimes, more likely the older, hence more life lived, they get. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Don't even get cocky OK. You will cheat, maybe not now but when you're older you will be one of those creepy older guys hollering at younger girls. Never say never you can't tell the future. All guys cheat... I have been dating a lot of years and have had many chances but I have't cheated. Your gender does not determine how likely you are to cheat. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author stealthy Posted April 13, 2013 Author Share Posted April 13, 2013 When I say cheating, I don't mean emotional cheating or a gf on the side. I mean it strictly in regards to physical cheating. Sex, whether it be oral or intercourse. I feel emotional cheating takes effort, time and emotions away from your relationship. Physical cheating can just happen, and a fwb on the side with clear boundaries can be effortless. I feel most guys with the means and available options will cheat. Definitely not all, but most. I also believe women cheat as well, though for different reasons and not all about the physical/sex aspect usually. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 Don't even get cocky OK. You will cheat, maybe not now but when you're older you will be one of those creepy older guys hollering at younger girls. Never say never you can't tell the future. All guys cheat... I wasn't aware that you are a dating expert and can predict the future for every single one of us. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nessaaa Posted April 13, 2013 Share Posted April 13, 2013 I am 34. My neighbor is in his 60s and says he has never cheated on his wife. Oh you still got time. You're wife is still young when she starts sagging your eyes will wonder off. I don't mean to sound like a pooper but its true Obviously your neighbor will say that, as if he would admit to that. Never say never guys. **** happens. Link to post Share on other sites
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