loredo21 Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 He is living on his own, taking care of himself right now. We plan to live together in the next year. Right now he is exploring why things happened. He is in a much better place than he has ever been. Not all people that embark on an affair are screwed up. And not all people who live with an alcoholic are messed up. They rarely did anything together, never spent any time together, and he stayed for his daughter. I find it sad that everyone thinks they can judge him, and me, based on a few lines typed. Nobody knows him. oh but sweetie, that's what they ALL will say! There has NEVER been a man who stayed in a crappy marriage for financial reasons or because of their children. I never. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 He is living on his own, taking care of himself right now. We plan to live together in the next year. Right now he is exploring why things happened. He is in a much better place than he has ever been. Not all people that embark on an affair are screwed up. And not all people who live with an alcoholic are messed up. They rarely did anything together, never spent any time together, and he stayed for his daughter. I find it sad that everyone thinks they can judge him, and me, based on a few lines typed. Nobody knows him. He stayed in an unhealthy environment and allowed his daughter to be exposed to her mother's alcoholism instead of removing her from it. How awful for her. That's just bad parenting on both of their parts. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
So happy together Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 That's great that he is looking at why things happened, good for him. However you still seem to be writing him a blank check not taking into account that they were two of them in that marriage and both of them were dysfunctional, which is dangerous for you. As for judgement, all a person has here are the words that someone writes and one must make a judgement call of some sort to respond. You see that as adverse, but it's just the way a forum works. False. I've not given you information about him. precious little. Certainly not enough to make a judgement on his mental health! But still, you automatically think it is dysfunctional, when in fact it is not. I didn't realize you were perfect. Link to post Share on other sites
ThatJustHappened Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 False. I've not given you information about him. precious little. Certainly not enough to make a judgement on his mental health! But still, you automatically think it is dysfunctional, when in fact it is not. I didn't realize you were perfect. There's no need to get nasty. How are we supposed to know anything other than what you tell us? Why post your situation if you don't want opinions on it? Link to post Share on other sites
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