I had sex with my friend and we began dating two weeks ago until last night?

[therabbit14]

Long story short. I'll try! I'm 23 and she is 29. We have been friends for a little over a year. We started getting very close around new years but she friend zoned me saying that she was seeing someone and didn't want to ruin that. She dumps him two weeks later and we obviously are friends and hang out. 2 or 3 weeks ago I told her that I wanted more then just friends and I cut her off. She kept texting, calling etc and after we went out for dinner which turned to drinks and she came over after and then we ended up back at her house and sex. The next week and a half has been fun. She''s been inviting me over for dinner we watch a movie or snuggle up and go to bed. I took her to a hockey game the other night and she kept saying how she would probably never voluntarily like hockey but because of me she will. Then last night after I'm done with work and she is I texted her saying thinking of you can't sleep with a smiley face and heart and she literally goes "dont get so caught up i dont like labels your too young" I said It doesn't matter how old I am and she goes we are just friends that's it and the last thing I said was I like you too much to be friends and I want to see where our relationship would head to and that the whole age thing and label doesn't matter to me and shouldn't to her. She called me this morning at 7 asking If I would still come by her work and see her. I said yes because I didn't know what else to say and I was half asleep. I texted her after stating we are going out for drinks after she gets out tonight.

 

I want to see what she says tonight about last night and I might just say if we aren't doing a relationship and we are just friends and I'm going to get played around I am all set. I'm already planning on packing all her things she left at my house and some of her sunglasses she left in my car. I don't know what made her say that last night though? The last two weeks I have gotten a lot of smiley faces with hearts from her etc and last night was just like a blind side.

[ja123]

I'm sorry to hear she's blowing cold on you like that. That's so unfair. Well, if she just wants an FWB and not a relationship, then I think you're right in saying that you'll only end up getting played, and you should move on.

 

If she wasn't comforable with the age difference in the beginning, then she shouldn't have led you on. Plus, it sounds like she was sending you mixed messages by acting like a GF. Then you show to have some feelings, and now she freaked. That's her bad.

 

Let us know what she says tonight, but don't compromise yourself if you're looking for something serious. Keep looking.

[therabbit14]

just got a text message from her saying hey stud i am bored at work would love to see you come bye smiley face heart kisses. havent responded yet

[therabbit14]

man i got played by her. big time no questions asked she played me and is still playing me