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Not sure if long time friend is giving me signs


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Been her friend for about 5 years but she did disappear for a year recently but she started talking to me again. She did explain why, she was embarased of her self at the time and she did not want me to see her like that.

 

Right now she is in Texas and I am in Canada. She is coming back next month though. We have texting everyday. I sent her a recent pic of me and she called me cute. Also called my shortness cute. She also said she wants me to come with her to Texas next time so I can see the sites and stay with her parents and have a picnic with them. We are also planning a mini-trip to another city for a few days soon.. She also threatened to beat anybody up that hurt me. Tons of my friends say they think she likes me as more then a friend but I am not sure. Also scared to bring it up in fear losing her friendship.

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Don't discuss it with her yet.

 

Just participate in all the nice plans you have, and have a great time.

 

Stay low-key, but be watchful for anything she says or does that clues you in that she's interested romantically. If she is, then show her that you are, too.

 

Think of movies or TV that you've seen where the girl 'n' guy don't yet know, so they stand close to each other or they do something friendly and physical, and then if there's electricity there, then that first hand-holding or first kiss happens.

 

Have fun figuring it out, and have fun with such a nice girl!

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ForeverHopeful1

I am in agreeance here. Why try to label anything before the adventures begin? See where it goes with no pressure. Have fun with her and see where it goes.

 

You should know shortly how she feels and at that time, you can reassess the situation and see where she stands on this whole thing. :) BUT have fun. Thats the best part, so dont miss out!

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Well we were talking about a local restaurant and I asked her if she want to go sometime. She said yes and I made a joke about how it felt like I asked her on a date. She said then it is a date. So yeah we going on a date when she gets back.

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