love1336x Posted April 15, 2013 Share Posted April 15, 2013 I SIMPLY cannot stand them. My mother is a recovering alcoholic. So, with her I try not to be cruel, or try to put her past into her present state. She was a VERY cruel, angry, ALCOHOLIC! And sometimes, and ONLY sometimes... I do feel somewhat bitter to what she have done to me. However, in life you only get one mother, so I try to forgive and moved on... She doesn't drive, and 90 percent of the time I drive her everywhere. A.A, supermarket, church... which is fine, BUT my 28 YEAR OLD BROTHER WHO LIVES WITH US!!! ALSO DRIVES, i believe SHOULD drive OUR MOTHER SOMETIMES TOO! Ya' know? Since we DID come OUT of the same VAGINA and ALL. He's nothing more than a LAZY PIECE OF CRAP. Who 90 percent of the time never dealt with our mother's ALCOHOL ISSUES. He would just go to sleep, or drive off somewhere. While me and my younger brother (18) dealt with our mother's b.s. She would usually break stuff, try to kill herself. We called the cops a lot on our mother.... Sometimes I wanna run away, and never come back. Someday I say someday... With the old brother of mine... I feel somewhat bad for him too though. 28 years old, no girlfriend, dead end job, living in our mother's basement, and he talks funny too... Just makes feel pity for him. His life is so empty... He also DRIVES MY CAR, never PUTS GAS BACK INTO IT. Makes me LATE to work... My mother's takes up about 90 percent of my time of social life, which is fine because I rather her go to church then hit the bottle. When I do get my own free times, she HATES it. She's lonely a lot. :/ LIFE SHALL GET BETTER I SAY. At least she isn't drinking. Link to post Share on other sites
adamaiden844 Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 These relations are very important in our life so we should handle them with care, give some space to your mother and brother to understands who is right or wrong with them. With some time they will understand all this situation after all they are hurt allot in their life. Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 Read this book; it will help you in both these situations: The Dance Of Anger. Link to post Share on other sites
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