prettichick Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 Me & this guy who used to talk went away for a job, he got back with his ex of 2 years, they always had an on and off relationship and now theyre 5 month back together, she is now pregnant which I just found out. But since we went away for a couple of days, We had sex for the 1st time together, and I spoke to him about what happened. we were both drunk but that was no excuse, I believe. I asked him if I was a mistake and he said no. He said it wasn't suppose to happen and was trying to avoid something like that happening. So I told him to man up and own up to shis sh**, he then said we let it happen or wanted it and it happend. But he was the one who would text me and everything to hang out when we got a chance. He made the first move, not me. he then said he felt bad and terrible if his girl found out because then he will lose her for real this time. He doesn't want me telling NO one about what happened. He said he was more worried about his girl finding out because she's pregnant. 2 days after, and it happened a second time. He texted me while we were in the hotel to hang or something and we drank, he claims he was just tipsy, meanwhile I was drunk. We had sex again. He says he wanted to leave but I was letting him. I admit it, I didn't want him to leave. But he was the one to hook up again, and do it again. He didn't have too, it's not like I forced him. I told him we can't be friends and he's just like "ahh not being friends tho"? I told him I couldn't' because my feelings were going to be involved no matter what, but he kept insisting. Basically we won't be as close as we got went we went away.. What should I do ? i know i shouldnt talk to him or get involved or nothing but feelings you cant control, and my feelings for him were always there. i know he likes me, its obvious, hes alwys flirting with me, teasing me and acting like himself around me, even his friends notice it. but with the girl he's with, he's always serious and acts tough. and if it was true love between them like he claims, he wouldn't of acted the way he did knowing she wasnt around. what should i do? i know i dont deserve that but he does make me happy -_- Link to post Share on other sites
BluEyeL Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 You should leave him alone and find someone you don't have to share. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 ONE: We ask that community participants separate long posts into paragraphs, leaving a blank line between each block of text similar to the style used in this document. We have found that posters who follow this suggestion not only improve the readability of the post, but also tend to receive a greater number of responses. TWO: Get a life as far away from him as possible. Link to post Share on other sites
SJC2008 Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 He's a cheater and you're his side piece and you know this. He made the moves so therefore you have no accountability in this whatsoever, at least in your mind. Since when was sex a one person act? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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