Author Stone Posted September 17, 2004 Author Share Posted September 17, 2004 Originally posted by katie79 The meds he's on greatly effect his failure to "stay up" past 2 min. I know I'm a woman, but I'm prob one of the only women that think 2 min is enough! I love sex, but after 2 min, orgasm comes and I'm done! That's all I need. but about 90% of the female pop needs longer--much longer! WOW I wish I could be like that!! Maby I should hook him up with you!!! LOL ( Just kiddin) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Stone Posted September 17, 2004 Author Share Posted September 17, 2004 Well he just called me, this morning I said that I was going out with friends and I wouldn't be home untill later...... ( I was going to explore) and when he called he told me he loved me and to use protection. ( he's not stupid) So I told him we will go out tonight togeather instead and talk things out. the problem is what the hell is left to talk about!! How horrible sex is I am sure he is sick and tired of hearing it!! and I am sick of complaining about it. Link to post Share on other sites
katie79 Posted September 17, 2004 Share Posted September 17, 2004 Are you going out to a club tonight or something? Yeah, I was always that way! Unless I'm under stress or on meds, the BC PILL, that would sometimes effect me reaching an orgasm at all, but not anymore! Link to post Share on other sites
Matilda Posted September 17, 2004 Share Posted September 17, 2004 I also think you might want to ask him to see another doc about all the meds. 3 anti-depressants seems like a lot. I don't know what kind of doc has prescribed the meds, but perhaps it might be worth him seeing a psychopharmacologist for another opinion, if he hasn't already. And like most of the others that have replied, I worry about you finding sexual satisfaction elsewhere. I just can't help but think that will lead to a lot of hurt and guilt. I definitely understand how important it is that he cares for your son, and that is definitely something to consider. But I do think it will be hard, if not impossible, to maintain a long term relationship when you are so dissatisfied sexually. You have a lot to think about. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 If you do end up doing it, don't tell him. This is the kind of concession you make when you want the offer to mean more than the taking-of-it-up. Link to post Share on other sites
reachingskywards Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 I think if you are on this forum and you look at what everyone has to say about cheating and their experiences. Look at all the complications it brings and all of the hurt, stress, tears, and confusion and down right pain, and then realise that it's not something that you want to bring into your life. You really have to understand that... it's not a place you will want to go to because if you're confused now about things it's just going to get one hellava rollercoaster ride worse. I'm talking from experience. It's far better if you find another way out of the situation without cheating. There have been some suggestions here... and I'm sure there are others. I realise that none are perfect but cheating would have to be the worst option. You say you want to get married so what are you going to do -- end up cheating for the rest of your life. Cheating isn't an option that is going to resolve your problem. Just will make it worse... Kylie Link to post Share on other sites
Author Stone Posted September 19, 2004 Author Share Posted September 19, 2004 I have really tried to process this in the past couple days, and spoke to my b/f about it. We are going to look in to Sexual Therapy! Witch completely freakes me out!!! But I'll try it. I'll keep you guys posted I am sure it will be quite intresting.... Sex Therapy at 23!! (lol) Link to post Share on other sites
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