biggysmilez Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 how do i even begin to cope with all of this loss at the same time? i have completely shut down. i've never been this numb before. Link to post Share on other sites
cclare Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 I am so, so sorry for the loss of your mother. And I'm sorry you're still feeling the pain of the break up. Allow yourself to go through the normal grieving process. And spend time with your family/loved ones during this tough time, try not to focus too much on your ex and any ex "drama". You CAN make it through this, and you will. *hugs* once again, I'm so very sorry. My thoughts are with you. Link to post Share on other sites
iouaname Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 I am so sorry for the loss of your mother and what you are going through Take care of yourself right now - and do whatever you have to do to get through these days, one step at a time. My thoughts are with you! Link to post Share on other sites
Melrapuo Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 I'm very sorry to hear about that. You are going through a very rough patch, no doubt about it. Just know that we are all on here to help. I'm not sure how much solace that gives, but know that you aren't alone. If you need any sort of advice or just someone to talk to, you can always PM me or anyone else who I'm sure would be willing to listen. Take care of yourself. Falling apart is not something your mom would want, I'm sure of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Addison312 Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 My condolences. That is very rough, indeed. Link to post Share on other sites
destroyed4sho Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 2 of my uncles died during the breakup and i didnt grieve properly for them bc of all the ahit that went down with my ex. i feel very guilty now months later. Make sure you take care of yourself and grieve for your mother properly...make sure you have plenty of support from familu and friends that will.listen to you. This is a rough time you are going through, things will get better. My prayers are with you. Link to post Share on other sites
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 2 of my uncles died during the breakup and i didnt grieve properly for them bc of all the ahit that went down with my ex. i feel very guilty now months later. Make sure you take care of yourself and grieve for your mother properly...make sure you have plenty of support from familu and friends that will.listen to you. This is a rough time you are going through, things will get better. My prayers are with you. OP - That TOTALLY sucks!!! I can relate. My mom passed away just weeks before my actual BU (already distancing for a while, though). And, I too feel I haven't even touched on that grievance as all my emotion and energy is tied up in this other BS. I feel very guilty and I'm hoping I am not causing myself serious issues down the road... I don't know what to say, as I am in the same boat and have no idea what to do. Sorry Link to post Share on other sites
Stillalive1 Posted April 18, 2013 Share Posted April 18, 2013 Condolances. In the past i lost in this sequence in one year: dad,job,i've been dumped cause i was not happy and smiley,and the grandma 2 weeks later. It sucks,it will b hard but i promise u will pass through it. And u will congratulate with yourself for how strong u are. Link to post Share on other sites
TearyEyedPride Posted April 18, 2013 Share Posted April 18, 2013 My heart and condolences definitely go out to you right now. Hopefully your mind, body and soul find some solace and ways to grieve and heal as cleansing and peacefully as possible. Link to post Share on other sites
Author biggysmilez Posted April 18, 2013 Author Share Posted April 18, 2013 thanks, everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
TouchedByViolet Posted April 18, 2013 Share Posted April 18, 2013 Dealing with all your feelings will take a lot of time. Try to focus on some positive things during your sorrow and numb feelings. Not everyone is fortunate to have a loving and good mother. Keep the happy times with your mom forever. Link to post Share on other sites
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