WorriedGirlfriend Posted April 17, 2013 Share Posted April 17, 2013 My boyfriend never makes the effort to see me and he's constantly watching or looking at really explicit porn. I've even caught him on sex chat forums. I wouldn't mind this so much if he didn't basically ignore me now. Our sex life has taken a huge dive and we've only been together 8 months. What can I do?! Link to post Share on other sites
roaminghart11 Posted April 18, 2013 Share Posted April 18, 2013 You need to talk to him about this, but you have not been together that long. Have a talk but if he is not willing to change his habits then you should find someone to be in a fulfilling relationship with. Wish you the best. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted April 18, 2013 Share Posted April 18, 2013 You posted the same thread yesterday, in a different forum. The answers you get here will be no different. He is disrespectful, doesn't communicate with you, and is surly and stubborn. If you were to ditch him it would make no difference to him; frankly, he doesn't care what you do, whether you stay or go. But the more you stay, the more it will erode your self-respect and dignity. The only thing with marginally less self-esteem and dignity, will be a doormat. Don't let him do this to you. Don't plead, beg, try to reason, or discuss this with him. You've tried all that and it hasn't worked. Leave. Take whatever dignity you can salvage with you, and go. You deserve better than this. If you stay, you will love, respect and consider yourself important, measurably less than he does. Don't treat yourself worse than he treats you. Link to post Share on other sites
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