In 6 months from to more to I don't know

[tech2841]

Hello all I think this is the best place for my story and to get feed back but it reaches across a few topics on this forum, and for the most part this is the story through my eyes so there might be more but I don't know.

 

So the start of this goes back to july of last year when a friend confided in me about leaving her husband (mainly was tired of a lot of his crap). I told her to try to work it out the best she can with him.

 

So in November she wanted to go with me to a dinner event and we ended up pushing our friendship a little farther than it should have went. Then the week of Thanksgiving she broke up with her husband. She went with me to dinner with me and then after dinner I took her to the ocean and we talked pretty deeply about life. A few weeks after we kinda of ventured to the bedroom again.

 

She eventually told me she had a open marriage with her husband and asked me if I was ok with that. The next night I told her I wasn't, and the next night was New Years and she wanted me to spend it with her. I did, after the ball dropped I could tell she wanted someone to be there for her so I told her we could cuddle if she wanted and she said she wanted more, and I told her I couldn't go that route with her.

 

After that I didn't see her to much but still kept in contact with her due to work. We were suppose to meet up with a few friends to go ice skating and she flaked out (she told me the reason and was kind of childish). So we stopped talking for a few weeks, than me and her met up with a few friends for dinner and afterwards we had a slightly serious talk on the way down mainly talked about what shes going through in life. At the end of that I tried to give her a kiss goodbye. She kinda turned her cheek and said cold sore so I settled with a kiss on the forehead.

 

So we met up a week after that in the park we walked and talked a little, and I asked the question is there something here more than a friendship? She said there wasn't but she had a huge miss conception of what I was looking for in general (she thought I was looking for marriage since I wanted to buy a house, in reality I'm looking for a house mainly for myself). During the entire conversation though she put her sunglasses on in which she had them off when we were walking around the park and it was kind of overcast that day. When we parted ways she asked if I would send her a real conversation to her, also not to send any romantic stuff to her when I contacted her.

 

About a month went by before I finally wrote her a real email (I had to move and also was changing jobs during this time, and she went on a two week trip) I sent her a few messages prior to that nothing to deep one just to make sure she got back safe and then one that was kinda of romantic just to make sure she was doing good. Then I wrote her a long email like she wanted and when she replied she told me she appreciated the email but was past that part, and we needed to stop talking for a bit because I didn't respect her boundaries. And she thought some time apart between us would be best, and as a friend wanted me to show I would respect her boundary.

 

So to those who have stayed here this long would love your input.